Birds and Bees Don't Fck

I ghosted, I know. And I'm sorry. So here's a little update on where things are at! Including me losing (for now) my primary instagram account @ariellezadok

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Tia Lynn is a sex and intimacy coach, Tedx speaker and host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast originally from Utah where as you can imagine, the Mormons (which she was not one of) taught her nothing about sexuality but a whole lot about judgement.

Some things we said...

"Pole dancing gives permission for others to explore their desires and sensuality."

"Transitioning into sex coaching happened naturally based on client feedback and impact."

"When you upgrade and when you progress past that, that makes them look at themselves in a way that they're not ready to."

"Play parties provide a space where sex is permitted, but it's not required."

"Consent is required at play parties, and there's accountability for violating someone's boundaries."

Nnamdi Ngwe is an actor, comedian and writer for The Amber Ruffin Show and Tab Time originally from London where his initial sex education was just the bad kids used to try to get the younger kids to kiss. Then he got a little older and realized how unhinged that was!

Some things we said...

"I would, as long as it's like, my feelings wouldn't be hurt if it's like, don't do that. Continue on. Yeah. Here's some guidance. Here's some notes. Let's keep going."

"You think that I'm not in control, you think that I'm not in power, your dick is in my mouth. I can fucking hurt you or heal you right now. Do not fuck with me."

"You have better sex when you know what you're working with. But none of us were ever taught what we're working with. So, like, we're just like flailing about."

"That's daddy official. Okay, okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you've been a sugar daddy. I've been not a good one."

"You have your erotic persona and then you have who you are. Yeah. Really? Like you have, there's, there's two worlds."

"To get somebody in a position to release to you in that way is such a gift and it's so powerful."

Teresa Lo is an award winning writer and comedian originally from Coffeeville Kansas where nearly 40% of her high school class had a baby before graduation… which is another reason why accurate sex education is so important!

Some things we said...

"Comedy and the sex world is the only place that accepts freaks and lets us thrive."

"If I really wanted it, I could have done it."

"How bad do you want something? What are you willing to sacrifice?"

"People, not all people, but many people are very dishonest about sexuality where they can't be open with what they really want."

"Some people are afraid to even negotiate, to even say upfront, like these are what I want. This is what I'm cool with. This is what I don't like to do. This is what I like to do."

"There are so many men out there that want to treat a woman, that want to be in that dynamic, that want to be daddy, that want to be a master."