Decoding Success with Matt LeBris

Most people don't feel lost because they lack direction. They feel lost because they've spent years becoming someone they thought they were supposed to be. But before we get into it: claim yo' free brand strategy call here: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ In this deeply moving conversation, Monica Berg challenges one of the biggest assumptions we make about happiness, purpose, and success: that if we achieve enough, we'll eventually feel fulfilled. Instead, she argues that many of us are unknowingly living from our ego rather than our authentic selves, pursuing lives shaped by expectation instead of intention. Together, we explore what it really means to reconnect with who you are beneath the conditioning. We discuss why so many high achievers still feel disconnected, how to recognize when you've drifted from your true self, and why trust, not control, is the foundation of a meaningful life. If you've ever questioned your purpose, felt disconnected from yourself, struggled with change, or wondered why success hasn't brought lasting fulfillment, this conversation will give you a completely new perspective. Connect with Monica Berg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicarberg74/ Listen to the Podcast here Website: https://www.rethinkitlove.com/ In this episode, you'll learn: How to know if you're living the life you truly want or the life you've been conditioned to pursue Why so many successful people still feel lost, disconnected, and unfulfilled The difference between living from your ego versus living from your soul How childhood conditioning quietly shapes the decisions you make as an adult Why trust, not control, is the key to creating a more meaningful life The surprising reason change leads to greater happiness and fulfillment How to reconnect with your curiosity, intuition, and authentic self Why your greatest challenges may actually reveal your life's deepest purpose The mindset shift that helped Monica navigate raising a child with Down syndrome Practical ways to stop living for other people's expectations and start becoming who you were created to be If this conversation resonated with you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who may need to hear it.

In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, Matt sits down with renowned sexologist, therapist, and intimacy expert Chantelle Otten for a powerful conversation about self-love, intimacy, connection, identity, and what it truly means to find yourself again. Free Brand Strategy Call: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris Many people spend years searching for deeper relationships, more meaningful friendships, and lasting love without realizing that the relationship they are missing most is the one they have with themselves. Chantelle explains why so many people feel disconnected in today's world, how fear, loneliness, people-pleasing, and external validation pull us away from ourselves, and why intimacy is about so much more than sex. Together, Matt and Chantelle explore the connection between self-awareness and healthy relationships, the importance of curiosity over certainty, and how the people in our lives often serve as mirrors reflecting both our strengths and our blind spots. The conversation dives into therapy, attachment styles, resilience, self-discovery, friendship, grief, courage, and the surprising role that fun plays in living a fulfilling life. Chantelle also shares deeply personal reflections on love, loss, her mother's final life lessons, and the reminder that success means very little if we forget to actually enjoy the life we're building. If you've ever felt disconnected, lonely, stuck, misunderstood, or unsure of who you are becoming, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective on how to reconnect with yourself and create a life that feels more authentic, meaningful, and alive. In this episode, you'll learn: Why so many people feel disconnected from themselves The surprising connection between intimacy and self-awareness How fear and external validation impact your relationships Why loneliness can exist even when you're surrounded by people The role friends play in helping us discover who we are How to receive feedback without losing yourself Why curiosity is essential for personal growth The difference between confidence and courage How healthy relationships act as mirrors for self-discovery Why self-love requires action, not just affirmation The impact of grief, loss, and resilience on personal growth Why "having more fun" may be the advice we all need most Connect with Chantelle: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chantelle_otten_sexologist/ Website: https://chantelleotten.com/ Connect with Matt: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt_lebris/

In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, Matt sits down with Liv Schreiber for a refreshing conversation about modern dating, friendship, loneliness, connection, and what it really means to build a life that feels alive. In a world where we're more connected than ever digitally, many people feel more isolated than ever personally. Liv shares why dating apps, endless options, social media, and fear of rejection are quietly making it harder to build meaningful relationships—and what we can do about it. Together, Matt and Liv explore the surprising ways we sabotage connection, why showing up alone might be the best thing you can do for your social life, and how creating friendships often leads to the very relationships we're searching for. Liv also shares the powerful lessons she learned from her grandparents, the mindset that helped her meet her husband, why curiosity is more important than certainty, and how becoming comfortable with yourself changes every relationship in your life. Whether you're single, dating, married, building new friendships, or simply looking to feel more connected to yourself and the people around you, this conversation is filled with practical wisdom and reminders that life is meant to be enjoyed. In this episode, you'll learn: Why modern dating feels harder than ever How too many options can create decision paralysis The secret to making meaningful friendships as an adult Why showing up alone can change your life How to become more socially confident The importance of setting intentions before entering a room Why curiosity is more powerful than certainty The relationship between self-connection and healthy relationships How to navigate rejection without losing confidence The surprising mindset shift that helped Liv meet her husband Why loneliness is impacting both men and women How to create more fun, spontaneity, and aliveness in everyday life Connect with Liv: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livschreiber/ Camp Social: https://www.instagram.com/campsocial/ Hot & Single Matchmaking: https://www.instagram.com/hotandsingle/ Connect with Matt: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt_lebris/ Free Brand Strategy Call: https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Watch all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MattLeBris

In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, Matt sits down with Annalie Howling for a powerful conversation about healing shame, overcoming limiting beliefs, burnout, identity, self-worth, and what it truly means to become yourself again. Annalie opens up about the difference between who we truly are versus who we become in order to survive. Together, Matt and Annalie explore how childhood experiences, trauma, toxic relationships, societal expectations, and internalized shame quietly shape our identities, relationships, ambitions, and even our success. This episode dives deep into the hidden connection between high achievement and emotional pain, why so many successful people secretly feel unworthy, and how unresolved shame can fuel perfectionism, people-pleasing, anxiety, burnout, and self-sabotage. Annalie shares deeply personal stories about surviving violence, navigating divorce, rebuilding her life, and learning how to stop living according to "shoulds" and start living according to what she truly wants. She also explains why shame is often felt in the body long before it becomes conscious thought — and why healing begins by reconnecting with yourself rather than abandoning yourself for acceptance. Matt and Annalie also unpack the pressure of modern life, the trap of comparison culture, why so many people stay stuck in survival mode, and how healing can unlock a level of peace, freedom, self-leadership, and fulfillment most people never realize is available to them. If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself, trapped by anxiety, driven by invisible pressure, or exhausted from trying to become who the world expected you to be, this conversation will deeply resonate with you. Learn more about Annalie Howling: Annalie Howling Website Annalie Howling on Instagram Happy After Podcast Level up your personal brand with Brand Builders Group by booking a complimentary strategy session here: Book Your Complimentary Brand Strategy Session In this episode you will: Discover how shame and limiting beliefs quietly shape identity, relationships, ambition, and self-worth Learn the difference between your authentic self and the version of yourself created through adaptation and survival Understand why high achievement and burnout are often deeply connected to emotional wounds and feelings of unworthiness Explore how trauma, anxiety, and shame can fuel perfectionism, people-pleasing, and self-sabotage Learn why so many people live according to "shoulds" instead of what they truly want Discover how to identify the hidden beliefs that may be keeping you small, stuck, or disconnected from yourself Understand the difference between sustainable high performance and survival mode Learn why comparison culture and modern productivity pressures are exhausting so many people emotionally Explore how healing creates peace, clarity, self-trust, and emotional freedom Hear Annalie's perspective on grief, healing, purpose, and rebuilding your life after painful experiences Learn why shame's biggest lie is convincing you that it's "too late" Discover how to stop existing in survival mode and start fully living your life

Most people think they have a dating problem. What they actually have is a pattern problem. Watch our episode on YouTube We don't just choose partners. We choose familiarity. And for a lot of people, that means unconsciously chasing the same emotional experience over and over again. The hot-and-cold dynamic. The anxiety. The longing. The feeling of having to earn love instead of safely receiving it. Relationship expert and bestselling author Amy Chan explains why so many people keep falling for unavailable partners, confusing chemistry with compatibility, and mistaking chaos for passion. Because the truth is, healthy love often feels unfamiliar before it feels safe. This conversation goes far deeper than dating advice. Amy breaks down the psychology behind limerence, nervous system activation, repetition compulsion, and why people unconsciously recreate the emotional wounds they experienced in childhood. She shares the exact patterns that quietly sabotage relationships, the role inconsistency plays in triggering anxiety, and why stable love can initially feel "boring" to people conditioned by unpredictability. Matt and Amy also unpack modern dating culture, the pressure created by social media expectations, and the dangerous advice being normalized online. Together, they explore what actually creates lasting love: commitment, mutuality, emotional safety, integrity, and the willingness to work through discomfort instead of running from it. Amy opens up vulnerably about her own relationship patterns, the years she spent chasing emotionally unavailable people, and the personal breakthrough that finally changed everything. The result is a masterclass on love, attachment, healing, friendship, emotional maturity, and what it truly means to build relationships that last. If you've ever wondered why dating feels exhausting, why you keep repeating the same patterns, or what healthy love is actually supposed to feel like, this episode will change the way you see relationships forever. UnSingle: The Art of Loving Yourself, Building Healthy Relationships, and Dating Smarter Amy on Instagram Amy's website (bootcamps + more fun!) In this episode you will: Discover why people unconsciously recreate familiar emotional wounds in relationships and how childhood experiences quietly shape who you're attracted to Learn the difference between chemistry and compatibility and why confusing the two leads so many people into unhealthy relationships Understand why inconsistency and hot-and-cold behavior activate anxiety in the nervous system and what emotionally safe love actually feels like Break down the four pillars of a healthy relationship: chemistry, compatibility, timing, and mutuality Explore the psychology of limerence, chasing, and emotional addiction and why some people become attached to the pursuit of love more than love itself Learn why healthy relationships can initially feel "boring" to people conditioned by chaos, unpredictability, or emotional instability Understand the role commitment plays in long-term love and why feelings alone are never enough to sustain a relationship Discover the difference between wanting love and having the capacity and ability to maintain a healthy relationship Learn practical ways to create deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and lasting connection inside long-term relationships Hear Amy's framework for building "relational wealth" through nourishing friendships, meaningful community, and intentional human connection