In today’s episode, Marsha explores what it truly means to stay Heart-Wired when life feels heavy, uncertain, or emotionally demanding. Recorded during the holidays, this conversation meets listeners in the reality that leadership, visibility, and openness don’t pause just because things are hard — and neither does the nervous system’s instinct to protect.Marsha breaks down the difference between being hard wired (armored, shut down, surviving) and heart wired (regulated, open, emotionally present), and why most people default to protection when things feel unpredictable. Drawing from neuroscience, lived experience, and real world examples, she explains how staying open isn’t about bypassing pain, but about building capacity, self trust, and sustainable leadership.This episode is an invitation to stop armoring up, reconnect with your heart as a source of intelligence and safety, and lead yourself forward even when it would feel easier to shut down.Highlights[00:45] Why staying heart wired is hardest exactly when you need it most[01:20] The science of heart to brain communication and why thinking harder doesn’t help[02:15] Why slowing down, breathing, and listening create more clarity than force[03:10] Hard wired vs heart wired: survival mode versus regulated leadership[04:05] Why numbing out and armoring up feel easier but cost you more long term[05:10] The subconscious need for predictability and why hard seasons trigger shutdown[06:05] Common fear stories that surface under stress: “I’m too much” and “If they see me, they’ll leave”[07:10] How armoring kills creativity, connection, and support[08:00] Regulating through breath and anchoring back into the heart[08:55] Vulnerability as expansion, not weakness[09:50] Turning discomfort, criticism, and visibility into leadership fuel[11:05] Why belief is the foundation required for what you’re building next[13:00] Your heart as a superpower meant to be used when things are hardMarsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and PodcasterJoin the 2026 HWCEO Mastermind: https://meghan-weir.thrivecart.com/hwceomastermind/Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcastUnbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcastDownload “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HEREThe Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow!Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HEREMentioned in this episode:Outspoken NLP Certification https://www.marshavanw.com/OUTSPOKENNLP