On this episode of The Ty Brady Way, Ty sits down with Chris Harris, a former U.S. military veteran, private contractor, martial arts system creator, and now executive coach and keynote speaker whose life journey reads like a masterclass in mental toughness from the ground up. Chris found Ty through another episode of the show, and what follows is one of those conversations that hits you in ways you did not expect walking in. Chris’s background alone sets the tone for everything that follows. He grew up in a tumultuous environment, began training in martial arts at age 10, and enlisted in the military at 18 as his own graduation gift to himself. After four years of service he spent the next 25 years as a private contractor teaching elite military operators and Special Forces his own proprietary system of close quarters combat called Roku Jitsu, built not on muscle memory but on reflex arc, rewiring the body’s involuntary responses to the only 12 ways a person can be hurt with bare hands. When his body could no longer keep up with that work, he pivoted into B2B tech sales, climbed to the top of the leaderboard fast, and realized that everything he had been teaching warriors applied directly to the boardroom. The conversation goes deep on why people quit, and Chris breaks it down into two forces: focus and friction. Focus means knowing exactly why you started and having a clear daily process to work, because a goal without a process is just a wish. Friction means identifying on the front end exactly what is going to stand between you and where you want to go, because if you cannot name your saboteur, you cannot stop it. He and Ty draw a sharp parallel between reflex arc training and objection handling in sales, landing on the idea that there are really only eight to ten objections just as there are only twelve ways to be hurt, and mastery in both comes from making your response automatic. One of the episode’s most thought-provoking moments comes when Chris introduces the concept of metacognition, which he describes as awareness on steroids. It is not just noticing what you are doing, it is asking why you are doing it and what it is costing you. He connects this directly to overcoming the fear of rejection, which he calls the single biggest barrier between a salesperson and elite performance. And he grounds all of it in a simple but powerful idea: the Kingdom of God lives within you, which to Chris means that everything you need to achieve your biggest goals is already inside you. Your job is simply to develop it, become conscious of it, and stop looking for it somewhere else. Ty and Chris also get into the critical difference between coaching and consulting, and why Chris charges double for the latter. A coach leads you to your own conclusions. A consultant tells you exactly what to do and gets you there in half the time. Neither is better, but knowing which one a person actually wants before the conversation starts is everything. The same principle applies to knowing whether someone wants to be heard, helped, or hugged, and Chris is direct about the fact that if ego has moved out of its lane into blame, excuses, and finger pointing, he simply will not engage. There are too many people who genuinely want to do the work to spend time on those who do not. Chris closes with the piece of advice he would leave anyone with above all else: never withhold love if it is within your power to give it. In a world where divorce, obesity, and suicide are all at record highs despite unprecedented access to information, he brings it back to the simplest principle of all. Applied knowledge is power, and the golden rule is the most powerful application of all. 🔗 www.chrisharrisllc.com 🎙️ @thetybradyway with @thewarriormaker   As always, we would like to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] Or DM us on Instagram @thetybradyway