What's your grow question?The weirdest “secondhand high” isn’t smoke drifting across a room, it’s the aftershock of telling someone you love that cannabis is part of your life. When a friend, parent, partner, or co-parent finds out you use cannabis or make edibles at home, the hardest part often isn’t dosing or infusion, it’s finding words that don’t trigger fear, shame, or a fight.I walk through why these conversations can feel so loaded: cultural residue from prohibition, the one-sided “experience gap,” and the added pressure when cannabis is still illegal where someone lives. Rather than defaulting to “it’s legal” or sounding like you’re building a courtroom defense, I focus on bridge-building language that starts with the relationship. You’ll hear a simple framework for picking the right moment, getting clear on what you want (validation, permission, transparency), and deciding what’s up for negotiation.Find the Cannabis Conversations Card on the episode page. If you’re trying to live without compartmentalizing, this is a grounded guide for having the talk and then following through afterward. What’s the toughest reaction you’ve gotten when you brought up cannabis?Join the Grower's Ask Me Anything on Thursday, April 2nd, 8pm EST. Now being streamed on YouTube! Send questions in advance to [email protected]!Support the show Visit the website for full show notes, free dosing calculator, recipes and more.