<description>&lt;p&gt;Do you think you have grit?&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;💌Join 8,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter -&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/45NyQDy"&gt;http://bit.ly/45NyQDy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Research has shown that the most common characteristic of elite performers and high achievers is grit.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Understood as the passion and perseverance for very long term goals, Grit is not about natural ability or talent, but rather how we choose to grow.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Your favourite resident psychologist, Dr Emily Musgrove, is back in the studio this week to talk about how you can become a grittier person!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;We also look inward, as Josh asks how to maintain grit when it feels like your inner critic is overwhelmingly loud.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Dr Em, so great to have you back.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;0:00 &amp;ndash; Down with the nonchalance! &lt;br&gt;5:43 &amp;ndash; Talent vs Excellence&lt;br&gt;10:40 &amp;ndash; Interested in finding your interests&lt;br&gt;16:42 &amp;ndash; For the non-naturals in the room &lt;br&gt;24:22 &amp;ndash; Effort is essential for excellence &lt;br&gt;32:17 &amp;ndash; Practicing, kindly &lt;br&gt;35:01 &amp;ndash; Hope is earned &lt;br&gt;42:06 &amp;ndash; The good and bad criticism&lt;br&gt;53:45 &amp;ndash; Encountering pain and discomfort &lt;br&gt;59:54 &amp;ndash; For the greater good &lt;br&gt;1:06:09 &amp;ndash; The dark side of perseverance&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you want to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - &lt;a href="https://youtu.be/JmcLV7DGL4k"&gt;https://youtu.be/JmcLV7DGL4k&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;🫖Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Dyson Heppell - Whatever It Takes&amp;hellip; To Forgive - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4egeneO"&gt;https://bit.ly/4egeneO&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Nedd Brockmann - The Man, The Myth, The Neddgend - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4egfATo"&gt;https://bit.ly/4egfATo&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Dr Emily - Hope - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/43YalTr"&gt;https://bit.ly/43YalTr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Bri Lee - Babies+Climate=Anxiety - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4xlrYdl"&gt;https://bit.ly/4xlrYdl&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;How I Built &amp;lsquo;Dis&amp;rsquo; - The Resilience Project Story - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4aH0dSP"&gt;https://bit.ly/4aH0dSP&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;📚Things to read&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4vzoe6o"&gt;https://bit.ly/4vzoe6o&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Self-efficacy, by Albert Bandura - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4fx4KdW"&gt;https://bit.ly/4fx4KdW&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Master of Change, by Brad Stulberg - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4xCbUEv"&gt;https://bit.ly/4xCbUEv&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li&gt;Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise, by Anders Ericsson - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/3Q9cIje"&gt;https://bit.ly/3Q9cIje&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;📺Things to watch&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;THE GAP, by Ira Glass - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4xjkuHL"&gt;https://bit.ly/4xjkuHL&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;⭐️Things to donate to&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;JMB Foundation - &lt;a href="https://jmbfoundation.org.au/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="https://jmbfoundation.org.au"&gt;https://jmbfoundation.org.au&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;🏆Competitions to enter&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema Gold Class Double Pass - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/3S0E0Zr"&gt;https://bit.ly/3S0E0Zr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;🎟️Things to buy tickets to&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li&gt;Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema - &lt;a href="https://bit.ly/4vq9JSr"&gt;https://bit.ly/4vq9JSr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p&gt;🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, purchase here -&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz"&gt;http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel)&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;My Imperfect Life,&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;click here -&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuW"&gt;http://bit.ly/4lyuuW&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;🩵To join our subscriber community, &lt;em&gt;A Little More Imperfects,&lt;/em&gt; follow this link - &lt;a href="http://bit.ly/4mqunxu"&gt;http://bit.ly/4mqunxu&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;🩷 AND you can subscribe to &lt;em&gt;A Little More Imperfects&lt;/em&gt; through Apple Podcasts too, here - &lt;a href="http://apple.co/theimperfects"&gt;http://apple.co/theimperfects&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you&amp;rsquo;re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;See &lt;a href="https://omnystudio.com/listener"&gt;omnystudio.com/listener&lt;/a&gt; for privacy information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

The Imperfects

Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

Dr Emily - You're Full of Grit

JUN 14, 202676 MIN
The Imperfects

Dr Emily - You're Full of Grit

JUN 14, 202676 MIN

Description

Do you think you have grit? 💌Join 8,000+ people getting our takeaways and favourite moments from this episode in our weekly newsletter - http://bit.ly/45NyQDy Research has shown that the most common characteristic of elite performers and high achievers is grit. Understood as the passion and perseverance for very long term goals, Grit is not about natural ability or talent, but rather how we choose to grow. Your favourite resident psychologist, Dr Emily Musgrove, is back in the studio this week to talk about how you can become a grittier person! We also look inward, as Josh asks how to maintain grit when it feels like your inner critic is overwhelmingly loud. Dr Em, so great to have you back. 0:00 – Down with the nonchalance! 5:43 – Talent vs Excellence10:40 – Interested in finding your interests16:42 – For the non-naturals in the room 24:22 – Effort is essential for excellence 32:17 – Practicing, kindly 35:01 – Hope is earned 42:06 – The good and bad criticism53:45 – Encountering pain and discomfort 59:54 – For the greater good 1:06:09 – The dark side of perseverance If you want to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://youtu.be/JmcLV7DGL4k  🫖Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode Dyson Heppell - Whatever It Takes… To Forgive - https://bit.ly/4egeneO Nedd Brockmann - The Man, The Myth, The Neddgend - https://bit.ly/4egfATo Dr Emily - Hope - https://bit.ly/43YalTr Bri Lee - Babies+Climate=Anxiety - https://bit.ly/4xlrYdl How I Built ‘Dis’ - The Resilience Project Story - https://bit.ly/4aH0dSP 📚Things to read Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth - https://bit.ly/4vzoe6o Self-efficacy, by Albert Bandura - https://bit.ly/4fx4KdW Master of Change, by Brad Stulberg - https://bit.ly/4xCbUEv Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise, by Anders Ericsson - https://bit.ly/3Q9cIje 📺Things to watch THE GAP, by Ira Glass - https://bit.ly/4xjkuHL ⭐️Things to donate to JMB Foundation - https://jmbfoundation.org.au 🏆Competitions to enter Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema Gold Class Double Pass - https://bit.ly/3S0E0Zr 🎟️Things to buy tickets to Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema - https://bit.ly/4vq9JSr 🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, purchase here - http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz 🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel) My Imperfect Life, click here - http://bit.ly/4lyuuW 🩵To join our subscriber community, A Little More Imperfects, follow this link - http://bit.ly/4mqunxu 🩷 AND you can subscribe to A Little More Imperfects through Apple Podcasts too, here - http://apple.co/theimperfects The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.