In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.  They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationship drama making the rounds online, and much more.  Plus, there’s Money Zone with Moneypoint and a fun Spin the Weekend moment with Gordon’s Gin.If you enjoyed this episode, like, comment and subscribe. Drop the stories you want us to cover next in the comments.00:00 — Season 9 kickoff  02:05 — Promo shoot   04:10 — Plato food shout out  06:00 — Tyra Banks documentary  11:20 — Reality TV then vs now  15:40 — Extreme makeovers debate  18:30 — Big Brother fame pressure  21:00 — Cardi B postpartum tour  23:20 — Beyoncé concert standard  26:00 — Nigerian concerts discussion  29:10 — Celebrity deaths &amp; healthcare costs  33:40 — Mexico cartel crisis  38:10 — World Cup travel concerns  41:20 — Nigerian streamers drama  45:50 — IShowSpeed’s Africa tour  49:20 — Looking like you don’t need money  52:10 — Mirabel assault story  56:40 — Simi tweets controversy  1:02:10 — Feminism &amp; Twitter dragging  1:06:00 — Engagement bait &amp; fake stories  1:09:20 — Cubana Chief Priest DNA saga  1:12:50 — Tonto Dikeh rebrand  1:15:30 — Money Zone By Moneypoint  1:20:40 — Nigeria, money &amp; savings  1:25:10 — Business tools &amp; POS tracking  1:28:30 — Street fight story  1:31:10 — OffAir Reacts:  Throuple discussion  1:33:30 — Celebrity crushes  1:35:40 — Gordon&apos;s Cocktail time  1:38:00 — Gordon&apos;s Spin the Weekend (Brunch &amp; Gist)  1:40:20 — Episode wrap-up#OffAirPodcast #GbemiAndToolz #TyraBanks #Simi #NigerianStreamers #CelebrityDrama #PopCulturePodcast

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.&lt;br/&gt; They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationship drama making the rounds online, and much more.&lt;br/&gt; Plus, there’s Money Zone with Moneypoint and a fun Spin the Weekend moment with Gordon’s Gin.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you enjoyed this episode, like, comment and subscribe. Drop the stories you want us to cover next in the comments.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;00:00 — Season 9 kickoff&lt;br/&gt; 02:05 — Promo shoot &lt;br/&gt; 04:10 — Plato food shout out&lt;br/&gt; 06:00 — Tyra Banks documentary&lt;br/&gt; 11:20 — Reality TV then vs now&lt;br/&gt; 15:40 — Extreme makeovers debate&lt;br/&gt; 18:30 — Big Brother fame pressure&lt;br/&gt; 21:00 — Cardi B postpartum tour&lt;br/&gt; 23:20 — Beyoncé concert standard&lt;br/&gt; 26:00 — Nigerian concerts discussion&lt;br/&gt; 29:10 — Celebrity deaths &amp;amp; healthcare costs&lt;br/&gt; 33:40 — Mexico cartel crisis&lt;br/&gt; 38:10 — World Cup travel concerns&lt;br/&gt; 41:20 — Nigerian streamers drama&lt;br/&gt; 45:50 — IShowSpeed’s Africa tour&lt;br/&gt; 49:20 — Looking like you don’t need money&lt;br/&gt; 52:10 — Mirabel assault story&lt;br/&gt; 56:40 — Simi tweets controversy&lt;br/&gt; 1:02:10 — Feminism &amp;amp; Twitter dragging&lt;br/&gt; 1:06:00 — Engagement bait &amp;amp; fake stories&lt;br/&gt; 1:09:20 — Cubana Chief Priest DNA saga&lt;br/&gt; 1:12:50 — Tonto Dikeh rebrand&lt;br/&gt; 1:15:30 — Money Zone By Moneypoint&lt;br/&gt; 1:20:40 — Nigeria, money &amp;amp; savings&lt;br/&gt; 1:25:10 — Business tools &amp;amp; POS tracking&lt;br/&gt; 1:28:30 — Street fight story&lt;br/&gt; 1:31:10 — OffAir Reacts:  Throuple discussion&lt;br/&gt; 1:33:30 — Celebrity crushes&lt;br/&gt; 1:35:40 — Gordon&amp;apos;s Cocktail time&lt;br/&gt; 1:38:00 — Gordon&amp;apos;s Spin the Weekend (Brunch &amp;amp; Gist)&lt;br/&gt; 1:40:20 — Episode wrap-up&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;#OffAirPodcast #GbemiAndToolz #TyraBanks #Simi #NigerianStreamers #CelebrityDrama #PopCulturePodcast&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.  They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationsh...

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Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real. We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural. From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss: Discovering self-pleasure growing up Porn, performance myths &amp; unrealistic expectations Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures? When does it become a problem in relationships? Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want? Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”? The monogamy debate  We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it. 00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest 02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up 08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure &amp; Unrealistic Expectations 15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More? 22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring 29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied? 36:15 – Communication, Ego &amp; Giving Feedback 44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate 53:10 – Sexual Exploration &amp; Personal Boundaries 01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem? 01:10:15 – Final Thoughts &amp; Audience Reactions

<description>&lt;p&gt;Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real.&lt;br/&gt;We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss:&lt;br/&gt;Discovering self-pleasure growing up&lt;br/&gt;Porn, performance myths &amp;amp; unrealistic expectations&lt;br/&gt;Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures?&lt;br/&gt;When does it become a problem in relationships?&lt;br/&gt;Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want?&lt;br/&gt;Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”?&lt;br/&gt;The monogamy debate &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest&lt;br/&gt;02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up&lt;br/&gt;08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure &amp;amp; Unrealistic Expectations&lt;br/&gt;15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More?&lt;br/&gt;22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring&lt;br/&gt;29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied?&lt;br/&gt;36:15 – Communication, Ego &amp;amp; Giving Feedback&lt;br/&gt;44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate&lt;br/&gt;53:10 – Sexual Exploration &amp;amp; Personal Boundaries&lt;br/&gt;01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem?&lt;br/&gt;01:10:15 – Final Thoughts &amp;amp; Audience Reactions&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real. We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural.  From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss: Discovering self-pleasure growing up Porn, performance myths &amp; unrealistic expectations Is it...

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In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun &quot;This or That&quot; questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner. Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom.  Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way! 00:00 - Intro 02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance? 07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations 13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure? 17:45 - Fake It &apos;Til You Make It? 22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure 27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions 32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight 36:00 - Closing Thoughts

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun &amp;quot;This or That&amp;quot; questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;00:00 - Intro&lt;br/&gt;02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?&lt;br/&gt;07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations&lt;br/&gt;13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure?&lt;br/&gt;17:45 - Fake It &amp;apos;Til You Make It?&lt;br/&gt;22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure&lt;br/&gt;27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions&lt;br/&gt;32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight&lt;br/&gt;36:00 - Closing Thoughts&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner.  Join Gbemi ...

Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance? 

In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing valuable insights on power dynamics, and how she navigates dominance and submission in a healthy and consensual way. Plus, get the inside scoop on her experiences in relationships and how to communicate what turns you on without fear, shame, or hesitation. In partnership with Durex, this episode explores mutual pleasure, sexual confidence, and how both partners can truly understand each other’s needs in and out of the bedroom. 00:00 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to &apos;Say It With Your Chest&apos;? 03:30 - Meet Slumflower: From Best-Selling Author to Dominatrix 07:00 - The Importance of Confidence in Communication 12:20 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships 16:50 - Saying What You Want in Bed: How to Communicate Your Needs 22:00 - The Psychology of Men’s Submissive Tendencies 28:15 - Confidence, Consent, and Comfort: The Key to Great Sex 33:00 - Breaking Down Cultural Barriers: Owning Your Pleasure in Nigerian Society 39:30 - Sexual Exploration: How to &apos;Train&apos; Your Partner (In a Fun Way) 44:00 - The Role of Praise: Why Men Love to Be Called &apos;Good Boy&apos; 49:20 - Slumflower’s Take on Dominance, Submissiveness, and Consent 54:00 - A Conversation on Mutual Pleasure: Durex’s Role in Sexual Confidence 58:30 - Closing Thoughts: Speak Up, Own Your Desires, and Say It With Your Chest

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing valuable insights on power dynamics, and how she navigates dominance and submission in a healthy and consensual way. Plus, get the inside scoop on her experiences in relationships and how to communicate what turns you on without fear, shame, or hesitation.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In partnership with Durex, this episode explores mutual pleasure, sexual confidence, and how both partners can truly understand each other’s needs in and out of the bedroom.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;00:00 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to &amp;apos;Say It With Your Chest&amp;apos;?&lt;br/&gt;03:30 - Meet Slumflower: From Best-Selling Author to Dominatrix&lt;br/&gt;07:00 - The Importance of Confidence in Communication&lt;br/&gt;12:20 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships&lt;br/&gt;16:50 - Saying What You Want in Bed: How to Communicate Your Needs&lt;br/&gt;22:00 - The Psychology of Men’s Submissive Tendencies&lt;br/&gt;28:15 - Confidence, Consent, and Comfort: The Key to Great Sex&lt;br/&gt;33:00 - Breaking Down Cultural Barriers: Owning Your Pleasure in Nigerian Society&lt;br/&gt;39:30 - Sexual Exploration: How to &amp;apos;Train&amp;apos; Your Partner (In a Fun Way)&lt;br/&gt;44:00 - The Role of Praise: Why Men Love to Be Called &amp;apos;Good Boy&amp;apos;&lt;br/&gt;49:20 - Slumflower’s Take on Dominance, Submissiveness, and Consent&lt;br/&gt;54:00 - A Conversation on Mutual Pleasure: Durex’s Role in Sexual Confidence&lt;br/&gt;58:30 - Closing Thoughts: Speak Up, Own Your Desires, and Say It With Your Chest&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest  Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing...

Taking Charge in the Bedroom: Dominance, Desire & Speaking Up ft. Slumflower

In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement.From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits.Join the conversation in the comments 👇  #SayItWithYourChestProudly powered by Durex.00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex  02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?  07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually  11:46 – Silence, fear &amp; the pressure on women  18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?  24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets &amp; shame culture  32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?  40:18 – Compliments, playlists &amp; setting the mood  53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence &amp; consent

<description>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Join the conversation in the comments 👇&lt;br/&gt; #SayItWithYourChest&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Proudly powered by Durex.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex&lt;br/&gt; 02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?&lt;br/&gt; 07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually&lt;br/&gt; 11:46 – Silence, fear &amp;amp; the pressure on women&lt;br/&gt; 18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?&lt;br/&gt; 24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets &amp;amp; shame culture&lt;br/&gt; 32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?&lt;br/&gt; 40:18 – Compliments, playlists &amp;amp; setting the mood&lt;br/&gt; 53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence &amp;amp; consent&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement. From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits. Join the conversation in the comments 👇  #SayItWithYourChest Proudly powered by Durex. 00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex ...

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