In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner.Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom. Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way!00:00 - Intro02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure?17:45 - Fake It 'Til You Make It?22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight36:00 - Closing Thoughts