<description>&lt;div&gt; &lt;p&gt;In Therapy Tip of the Week #6, we continue on the topic of improving working alliance. Here's my recommendation, when seeking for feedback, avoid talking about... you!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p&gt;If you have missed the previous videos on how to improve working alliance, here are links:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;strong&gt;⏳ Time Stamps:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p&gt;00:00: Introduction&lt;br/&gt; 01:00: Using Depersonalised language&lt;br/&gt; 01:42: What Feedback is Not&lt;br/&gt; 02:02: Feedback to Feed-Forward&lt;br/&gt; 04:14: Summary&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Note: Any personally identifiable information in clinical examples used are changed, in order to protect their confidentiality and privacy.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt; &lt;span style="color: #ffffff;"&gt;📕 Related Link:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;ol&gt; &lt;li data-line="0"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/weeklytherapylearnings/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/weeklytherapylearnings/"&gt;Capturing Weekly Therapy Learnings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li data-line="1"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" title="Permalink to How Do You Get Better At Eliciting Feedback?" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-eliciting-feedback/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-eliciting-feedback/"&gt; How Do You Get Better At Eliciting Feedback?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;li data-line="2"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #ffffff;"&gt;&lt;a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" title="Permalink to How Do You Get Better at Receiving Feedback?" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-receiving-feedback/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-receiving-feedback/"&gt; How Do You Get Better at Receiving Feedback?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ol&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div class="embedded-backlinks"&gt; &lt;div class="nav-header"&gt; &lt;div class="nav-buttons-container"&gt; &lt;div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results"&gt; &lt;hr&gt; 📜 &lt;strong&gt;Becoming a Deep Learner:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br/&gt; If you value lifelong learning and want to leverage this into your clinical effectiveness as a mental health professional, check out The Deep Learner course. &lt;a href="https://darylchowcourses.teachable.com/p/deeplearner/" class="linkified" target="_blank"&gt;https://darylchowcourses.teachable.com/p/deeplearner/&lt;/a&gt; ---&lt;br/&gt; 🎁 Finally, would like to receive 5 wicked recommendations each Friday? 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Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development Podcast by Daryl Chow, Ph.D.

Daryl Chow

19. How to Elicit Nuanced Feedback Therapy Tip of the Week #6

SEP 23, 20225 MIN
Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development Podcast by Daryl Chow, Ph.D.

19. How to Elicit Nuanced Feedback Therapy Tip of the Week #6

SEP 23, 20225 MIN

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<div> <p>In Therapy Tip of the Week #6, we continue on the topic of improving working alliance. Here's my recommendation, when seeking for feedback, avoid talking about... you!</p> </div> <div> <p>If you have missed the previous videos on how to improve working alliance, here are links:</p> </div> <div> <p><br/> <strong>⏳ Time Stamps:</strong></p> </div> <div> <p>00:00: Introduction<br/> 01:00: Using Depersonalised language<br/> 01:42: What Feedback is Not<br/> 02:02: Feedback to Feed-Forward<br/> 04:14: Summary</p> </div> <div> <p><em>Note: Any personally identifiable information in clinical examples used are changed, in order to protect their confidentiality and privacy.</em><br/> <br/> <span style="color: #ffffff;">📕 Related Link:</span></p> </div> <div> <ol> <li data-line="0"><span style="color: #ffffff;"><a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/weeklytherapylearnings/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/weeklytherapylearnings/">Capturing Weekly Therapy Learnings</a></span></li> <li data-line="1"><span style="color: #ffffff;"><a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" title="Permalink to How Do You Get Better At Eliciting Feedback?" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-eliciting-feedback/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-eliciting-feedback/"> How Do You Get Better At Eliciting Feedback?</a></span></li> <li data-line="2"><span style="color: #ffffff;"><a class="external-link" style="color: #ffffff;" title="Permalink to How Do You Get Better at Receiving Feedback?" href="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-receiving-feedback/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" aria-label-position="top" aria-label="https://darylchow.com/frontiers/how-do-you-get-better-at-receiving-feedback/"> How Do You Get Better at Receiving Feedback?</a></span></li> </ol> </div> <div class="embedded-backlinks"> <div class="nav-header"> <div class="nav-buttons-container"> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results"> <hr> 📜 <strong>Becoming a Deep Learner:</strong><br/> If you value lifelong learning and want to leverage this into your clinical effectiveness as a mental health professional, check out The Deep Learner course. <a href="https://darylchowcourses.teachable.com/p/deeplearner/" class="linkified" target="_blank">https://darylchowcourses.teachable.com/p/deeplearner/</a> ---<br/> 🎁 Finally, would like to receive 5 wicked recommendations each Friday? Subscribe to our Frontiers Friday newsletter:  <br/> <br/> 🎯<span style="color: #ffffff;"><a style="color: #ffffff;" href="https://darylchow.substack.com">https://darylchow.substack.com</a><br/> </span><br/> Here's a sample of past FF newsletters:</div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results"> <strong>1. On Highly Sensitive Persons:</strong> <a href="https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760832_frontiers-friday-101-sensitivity-part-i-"> https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760832_frontiers-friday-101-sensitivity-part-i-</a></div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results"> <strong>2. On Emotions:</strong> <a href="https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760804_frontiers-friday-95-emotions-part-i-"> https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760804_frontiers-friday-95-emotions-part-i-</a></div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results">3. On Deliberate Practice: <a href="https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760599_frontiers-friday-51-deliberate-practice-part-v-"> https://darylchow.substack.com/p/4760599_frontiers-friday-51-deliberate-practice-part-v-</a></div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Collapse results">  </div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Show more context">  </div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Change sort order">  </div> <div class="nav-action-button" aria-label="Show search filter">  </div> </div> </div> <div class="backlink-pane"> <div class="tree-item-self is-clickable" aria-label="Click to collapse"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="position: static !important;"> </div> <br/><br/>This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://darylchow.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_1">darylchow.substack.com</a>