Are you holding on too tightly to outcomes and wondering why things keep slipping away? In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why desperation leads to delusion and how to shift out of it. You’ll learn 9 powerful steps to detach with intention, stop sabotaging your own success, and finally become magnetic to the things you want most. Whether it’s relationships, career goals, or clarity in your life, detachment isn’t about not caring, it’s about choosing peace over panic.

I'll unpack the psychology behind why chasing can push things further away, how to rewire your need for control, and how to recognise the signs of obsession disguised as ambition.

If you’re tired of the constant overthinking, anxiety, or low-key obsession with getting it "right," this one’s for you.

Included in this ep:


  
The psychology of detachment



  
Why desperation warps reality



  
How to get what you want by caring less



  
9 actionable mindset shifts you can start today



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Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

461. How to master detachment to get what you really want. 9 simple steps

DEC 1, 202531 MIN
Do You F*cking Mind?

461. How to master detachment to get what you really want. 9 simple steps

DEC 1, 202531 MIN

Description

Are you holding on too tightly to outcomes and wondering why things keep slipping away? In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why desperation leads to delusion and how to shift out of it. You’ll learn 9 powerful steps to detach with intention, stop sabotaging your own success, and finally become magnetic to the things you want most. Whether it’s relationships, career goals, or clarity in your life, detachment isn’t about not caring, it’s about choosing peace over panic.

I'll unpack the psychology behind why chasing can push things further away, how to rewire your need for control, and how to recognise the signs of obsession disguised as ambition.

If you’re tired of the constant overthinking, anxiety, or low-key obsession with getting it "right," this one’s for you.

Included in this ep:

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