Head Noise: My Partner Trauma Dumps, I Feel Like a Fraud at Work, and I Freeze in Conflict

In this Head Noise episode, we unpack three listener dilemmas that all come down to boundaries, self-perception, and finding your voice when things feel overwhelming.

We talk about:


  
Whether to stay with a partner who constantly trauma dumps — and how to figure out if the relationship is actually sustainable long-term



  
What imposter syndrome really is at a new job, and how to rewrite your self-talk so it becomes realistic and empowering instead of self-sabotaging



  
Why some people freeze during confrontation, and how to start responding instead of shutting down




This episode covers:


  
Emotional compatibility vs emotional exhaustion in relationships



  
Determining if your needs are being met — not just if you care about someone



  
Reframing “I’m a fraud” thinking into grounded, self-supportive internal dialogue



  
The psychology behind conflict freeze responses



  
How to make decisions that protect your energy and long-term wellbeing




If you’ve ever felt drained by someone you love, doubted your place at work, or struggled to speak up when it matters, this one will resonate.

As always, Head Noise is about cutting through emotional overwhelm so you can make clearer, calmer decisions.
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

474. My Partner Trauma Dumps And I Don't Know If I Can Stay, I Feel Like a Fraud at Work, and I Freeze in Conflict - Head Noise

FEB 17, 202629 MIN
Do You F*cking Mind?

474. My Partner Trauma Dumps And I Don't Know If I Can Stay, I Feel Like a Fraud at Work, and I Freeze in Conflict - Head Noise

FEB 17, 202629 MIN

Description

Head Noise: My Partner Trauma Dumps, I Feel Like a Fraud at Work, and I Freeze in Conflict In this Head Noise episode, we unpack three listener dilemmas that all come down to boundaries, self-perception, and finding your voice when things feel overwhelming. We talk about: Whether to stay with a partner who constantly trauma dumps — and how to figure out if the relationship is actually sustainable long-term What imposter syndrome really is at a new job, and how to rewrite your self-talk so it becomes realistic and empowering instead of self-sabotaging Why some people freeze during confrontation, and how to start responding instead of shutting down This episode covers: Emotional compatibility vs emotional exhaustion in relationships Determining if your needs are being met — not just if you care about someone Reframing “I’m a fraud” thinking into grounded, self-supportive internal dialogue The psychology behind conflict freeze responses How to make decisions that protect your energy and long-term wellbeing If you’ve ever felt drained by someone you love, doubted your place at work, or struggled to speak up when it matters, this one will resonate. As always, Head Noise is about cutting through emotional overwhelm so you can make clearer, calmer decisions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices