<p>What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you <b>rebuild</b>?</p><p>In today’s episode of <i>Confidence and Coffee</i>, I’m joined by <b>Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith</b>, who share their powerful story of healing after betrayal, recovering trust, and learning how to build true intimacy again.</p><p>They introduce the concept of the <b>Intimacy Pyramid</b>, showing that intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s a thriving connection built on <b>honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability</b>, and only then, real intimacy.</p><p>If you’ve been walking through betrayal, marriage pain, or rebuilding after broken trust, this conversation is full of truth, grace, and practical hope.</p><p>What you’ll learn in this episode</p><ul><li>Why intimacy is a thriving connection that brings life</li><li>The <b>Intimacy Pyramid</b> and why honesty is the foundation</li><li>How betrayal damages safety and trust</li><li>Why shame and guilt block healing</li><li>What rebuilding trust actually requires (not just promises)</li><li>The role of vulnerability in restoration</li><li>Why individual healing matters for relationship healing</li><li>How grace makes room for recovery and forgiveness</li></ul><p>Key Quotes</p><ul><li>“Intimacy is a thriving connection.”</li><li>“Hope is possible even after betrayal.”</li><li>“Trust is built through consistent, trustworthy actions.”</li></ul><p>Episode Keywords</p><p>intimacy, relationships, healing, betrayal, honesty, trust, recovery, marriage, communication, grace</p><p>Chapters</p><p>00:00 The Power of Connection and Intimacy<br>&nbsp;04:52 Understanding the Intimacy Pyramid<br>&nbsp;10:42 Facing Addiction and Shame<br>&nbsp;16:29 The Impact of Honesty on Relationships<br>&nbsp;22:28 Healing Through Vulnerability<br>&nbsp;31:58 The Gift of Being Chosen<br>&nbsp;37:01 The Importance of Individual Responsibility<br>&nbsp;47:00 The Journey of Healing and Restoration<br>&nbsp;53:58 The Power of Hope and Grace<br>&nbsp;01:01:40 Outro</p><p></p><p>If this episode encouraged you, <b>leave a review</b> and tell me what part spoke to you, I read them and they matter more than you know 🤍</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://paypal.me/ashleyhenriott1?country.x=US&amp;locale.x=en_US">Support the show</a></p><p>If this encouraged you, please <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confidence-and-coffee/id1503394454"><b>leave a review on Apple Podcasts</b></a> and <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEgrgyXXzLZqeFaGTsxrkjQ"><b>subscribe on YouTube</b></a>. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith.</p><p><b>Disclaimer</b><br><i>Confidence and Coffee</i> is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://linktr.ee/mrsashleyhenriott">Connect with Ashley:</a><br><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/book">Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job</a><br><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/connect">Apply for Coaching with Ashley</a><br><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.ashleyhenriott.com/connect">Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker!</a><br><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEgrgyXXzLZqeFaGTsxrkjQ">Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here</a></p>