We sit down with relationship coach Bryan Power to unpack integrated attachment theory and the six pillars that can change how we love, fight, and repair. We connect the dots between childhood wounds, midlife turning points, and the practical tools that helped Brian rebuild his marriage after a separation. • six pillars of integrated attachment theory: core wounds, needs, emotional stability, boundaries, communication, behaviors • how early childhood patterns shape adult attachment and conflict • why wounds can intensify in your 40s and 50s and show up as “midlife crisis” moments • what happened leading up to separation and why space can create clarity • how learning to meet needs and regulate emotions reduces pressure on a partner • boundary setting as protection rather than punishment • communication that prioritizes understanding over defensiveness • what to do when your partner will not do the work and why one person changing still matters • why healing the subconscious patterns matters when willpower is not enough If you would like to know about IAT check out Bryan Power informationGo to his website myrelationshipfail.com. You can take the attachment style quiz from there. It’s free to do that. If you decide you want somebody to work alongside with you, please contact me. I’ll also give you a free session. Diva Tonight Glamour for your ears! Follow us on Instagram at DiivaOntheRadio. Don’t forget to follow us on TikTok at Diiva on the radio. Text us anytime at divatonight.buzzsprout.com.Send us Fan MailSupport the showThanks for listening to Diva Tonight! I want to thank my Podcast Editor Sean McAndrew and my Voice Over Actor Bruce Hayword ! Thanks to Altered by Mom for sponsoring the music - I truly appreciate you!Follow Diva Tonight Podcast on social media! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DiivaontheradioInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/diivaontheradioTikTok        https://www.tiktok.com/diivaontheradioTwitter/X    https://x.com/DivaontheRadioIf you would like to connect with the show, or share a review please send an email to [email protected] or send us a Text!