<p>In Episode 99 of the Thoughts from the Couch podcast, Justine sits down with therapist and author Eli Weinstein to unpack the invisible load that so many working couples carry behind the scenes. Together, they break down what this mental load actually looks like in day-to-day family life, why it often falls more heavily on one partner, and how resentment can quietly build when the balance feels off.</p><p><br></p><p>Justine and Eli explore the patterns that start early in parenthood, how “default parent” roles form, and the subtle ways these habits shape communication, connection, and even a couple’s sex life. They also dive into practical strategies for sharing responsibilities with more ease, including daily check-ins, proactive conversations, and learning to let your partner step in without expecting perfection.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode offers an honest, hopeful look at how couples can shift from scorekeeping and frustration to teamwork and understanding, creating a home where both partners feel supported rather than overwhelmed.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://plain-cloud-378.myflodesk.com/xz5icydz9n"><u>Learn more about how to set effective boundaries as a “people-pleaser”</u></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Pre Order Eli Weinstein’s Book “<em>From I Do to We Do”, </em>it’s the ultimate guide every couple needs: <a href="https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/book"><u>https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/book</u></a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Eli Weinstein on Instagram: @eliweinstein_lcsw</p><p><br></p>

Thoughts from the Couch Podcast

Justine Carino, LMHC

99: How Working Couples Can Share the Invisible Load Without Resentment with Eli Weinstein, LCSW

DEC 8, 202542 MIN
Thoughts from the Couch Podcast

99: How Working Couples Can Share the Invisible Load Without Resentment with Eli Weinstein, LCSW

DEC 8, 202542 MIN

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<p>In Episode 99 of the Thoughts from the Couch podcast, Justine sits down with therapist and author Eli Weinstein to unpack the invisible load that so many working couples carry behind the scenes. Together, they break down what this mental load actually looks like in day-to-day family life, why it often falls more heavily on one partner, and how resentment can quietly build when the balance feels off.</p><p><br></p><p>Justine and Eli explore the patterns that start early in parenthood, how “default parent” roles form, and the subtle ways these habits shape communication, connection, and even a couple’s sex life. They also dive into practical strategies for sharing responsibilities with more ease, including daily check-ins, proactive conversations, and learning to let your partner step in without expecting perfection.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode offers an honest, hopeful look at how couples can shift from scorekeeping and frustration to teamwork and understanding, creating a home where both partners feel supported rather than overwhelmed.</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://plain-cloud-378.myflodesk.com/xz5icydz9n"><u>Learn more about how to set effective boundaries as a “people-pleaser”</u></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Pre Order Eli Weinstein’s Book “<em>From I Do to We Do”, </em>it’s the ultimate guide every couple needs: <a href="https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/book"><u>https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/book</u></a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow Eli Weinstein on Instagram: @eliweinstein_lcsw</p><p><br></p>