This episode is a candid, practical conversation between Jake and Nicole, focusing on personal growth, habit-building, faith, identity, marriage, content creation, and stepping into purpose. The discussion moves through their experiences forming lasting habits, fighting daily resistance, establishing identity in God, creating structure around their work, and embracing their callings even when it feels uncomfortable.

They also explore the tension between ambition and surrender, the role of prayer in decision-making, the challenge of maintaining focus in a distraction-filled life, and the emotional experience of documenting their stories online. The conversation closes with insights about legacy, vulnerability, and trusting the long-term process God is shaping in their lives.

 

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Chapters: 

• (00:00) Introduction: Why habits matter
• (03:10) Identity, calling, and pressure
• (07:45) Creative discipline & showing up daily
• (12:20) Marriage, partnership, and growth
• (16:40) Balancing ambition with surrender
• (20:05) Faith, prayer, and emotional grounding
• (24:30) Documenting life & vulnerability online
• (29:00) Long-term purpose & legacy