Aging can feel like a wild ride, right? One minute you’re bopping along, feeling youthful and vibrant, and the next you’re staring at a reflection that’s more ‘who is that?’ than ‘hey, look at me!’ In this episode of Boomer Banter, we dive deep into why that happens and how our brains evolve as we age, gaining wisdom and emotional stability. Our host, Wendy Green, shares some sage words from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. about keeping hope alive through the disappointments that life throws at us. She gets real about the stories we tell ourselves as we age and how those narratives can shape our self-image. We explore the positivity effect, which is all about how our brains get better at focusing on what matters and letting go of the trivial as we grow older. Imagine trading in that pesky anxiety for a newfound sense of calm and perspective; sounds pretty sweet, right? Wendy encourages us to reframe our self-talk and focus on how we feel rather than how we look. So, the next time you catch a glimpse in the mirror, remember: it's not just about the wrinkles; it’s about the wisdom behind them!Takeaways:Aging can bring about changes in our self-image, but it doesn't have to be negative as we gain perspective and wisdom from our experiences.Our brains evolve as we age, enhancing our emotional regulation and patience, allowing for a more thoughtful response to life's challenges.The stories we tell ourselves about aging often come from societal influences, but we can choose to redefine our self-image positively.As we grow older, it's crucial to focus on how we live and what we value in ourselves, rather than just how we look.Links referenced in this episode:Learn all about Wendy's coaching at heyboomer.bizSchedule a complimentary Discovery Call with WendyThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: OP3 - https://op3.dev/privacy