It’s easy to look at a report card and feel like you’re getting a clear answer. Are they doing well? Are they “on track”? Are you doing enough as a mom? Because when those grades look good, there’s a sense of relief. Like… okay, we’re fine. But what if those grades aren’t telling the whole story? In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Deborah Kenny, founder of Harlem Village Academies and author of The Well-Educated Child, to talk about what actually prepares kids for the real world—and why so many of us have been taught to focus on the wrong things. What you’ll learn in this episode The three key pillars of a truly well-educated child—and why grades are just a small piece of the puzzle Why traditional school success like test scores and memorization doesn’t always translate into real-world skills How to build your child’s attention span in a world full of distractions—and why reading matters more than ever The role of parental involvement in education—and how small shifts at home can make a big impact Practical ways to help your child develop independence, motivation, and follow-through without constant reminders Why this matters So many overwhelmed moms are carrying the pressure of “getting it right” when it comes to their kids’ education. Checking homework. Monitoring grades. Pushing for better performance. And yet even with all that effort, it can still feel like your child is unmotivated, distracted, or just going through the motions. That’s because real-world readiness isn’t built through pressure—it’s built through skills like critical thinking, independence, and purpose. When we shift our focus from just “How are they performing?” to “Who are they becoming?” we start to support the kind of growth that lasts. Resources mentioned The Well-Educated Child by Dr. Deborah Kenny Harlem Village Academies The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt This episode is a powerful reminder that good grades can matter, but they are not the whole picture. What matters most is helping kids become thoughtful, motivated, capable people who know how to think, solve problems, and engage with the world around them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices