Darya's Couch
Darya's Couch

Darya's Couch

Darya's Couch

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HI! Happy to see you on Darya's Couch - a weekly podcast where I share solutions for everyday life challenges: how to be more conscious, maintain relationships, start a gig, remove bad habits, and many more. Basically, here I'm answering all the questions that I was or still asking myself in order to live happier, more dedicated life and share these tips with you. Feel free to ask me anything and share your feedback. Support me with a rate, share and comments if you'd like to hear more content like this. Have a gooood day! Darya

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Social comparison | Benefits, pitfalls and how to adjust it | ep.3
JAN 27, 2021
Social comparison | Benefits, pitfalls and how to adjust it | ep.3
HI! Happy to see you on Darya's Couch - a weekly podcast where I share solutions for everyday life challenges: how to be more conscious, maintain relationships, start a gig, remove bad habits, and many more.  Basically, here I'm answering all the questions that I was or still asking myself in order to live happier, more dedicated life and share these tips with you.  Support me if you want to get more content like this   Time codes: 00:42 What is social comparison? 01:33 The benefits os comparison 02:14 To whom should we compare ourselves? 02:45 The dangers of comparison 03:19 Why can comparison make feel us bad? 03:50 Can envy be a good thing? 04:19 Is social media harmful to self-esteem? 04:48 Comparisons and bias 05:14 "Above-the-average" effect 05:42 Are men or women liklier to think they are better than average? 06:08 Narcissism 06:37 How to stop comparing yourself to others  KEY NOTES:   1. It takes ~10% of our thoughts 2. "Pushing" each other (rather than just giving a positive encouragement) helps to generate more activity 3. Each person's activity among others generates more activity among others 4. Social media can lead to both diminishing self-esteem and reinforcing it, depending on the person   AWARENESS ALERT: do you compare yourself more often with those who are "better" than you? If yes, think of if it as one of the reasons that stops you and puts you down.  HOW TO BE LESS VULNERABLE TO PAIN OF COMPARISON?  1. Notice events/people who prompt the behavior 2. Commit to being DEEPLY GRATEFUL for WHAT'S GOOD in YOUR LIFE 3. Remember that desiring smth what other's have is such a waste of time until it's smth truly meaningful like kindness and generosity   Feel free to ask me anything and share your feedback Support me if you want to get more content like this  Have a GOOD week! Darya [email protected]
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