<description>&lt;p&gt;What if the pressure to “get parenting right” is actually coming from your trauma?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this powerful and deeply validating conversation, I sit down with Stephanie Foo, author of What My Bones Know, to unpack what it really means to parent while healing from complex PTSD.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Together, we explore the intense fear many trauma survivors carry into parenting; the belief that one wrong move could damage their child forever. We also discuss how modern parenting culture often amplifies that fear instead of easing it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stephanie shares her personal journey of becoming a mother while navigating C-PTSD, including the anxiety, perfectionism, and overwhelming pressure to control every outcome.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is a must listen for anyone who has ever wondered:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;“Am I messing up my child?”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Topics covered in this episode:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why “perfect parenting” is often a trauma response&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The hidden ways parenting advice can prey on vulnerable moms&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The difference between child distress and actual harm&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why control doesn’t create safety (and what does instead)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How C-PTSD shows up in parenting from hyper-attunement to dissociation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The truth about attachment (hint: you only need to get it right ~30% of the time)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;The role of repair, not perfection, in raising resilient children&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;About the Guest:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stephanie Foo is the author of the bestselling memoir &lt;a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/what-my-bones-know-a-memoir-of-healing-from-complex-trauma-stephanie-foo/916e2e6fdff307fd?ean=9780593238127&amp;amp;next=t&amp;amp;utm_source=google&amp;amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;amp;utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D&amp;amp;utm_content=6443417794&amp;amp;gad_source=1&amp;amp;gad_campaignid=16235479093&amp;amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld42wm3ZJYOrS192gzz20OPUOL&amp;amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwyYPOBhBxEiwAgpT8P353Fr1ludibZnz305XmuimN8dbxEz4KYcG_sFKBVNuexJAUxJkqshoC0ukQAvD_BwE"&gt;What My Bones Know&lt;/a&gt;, where she chronicles her journey of healing from complex PTSD. Her work has helped bring C-PTSD into mainstream conversation, giving voice to experiences that were long misunderstood or overlooked. To read more about Stephanie, and to buy a copy of her book, you can visit her website &lt;a href="https://www.stephaniefoo.me/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Connect with me on Instagram&lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.koslowitzpsychology/" style="color:rgb(17,85,204);background-color:rgb(255,255,255);"&gt; @dr.koslowitzpsychology&lt;/a&gt; and check out my new book &lt;a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCSWBL4M" style="color:rgb(17,85,204);background-color:rgb(255,255,255);"&gt;Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Post Traumatic Parenting

Dr. Robyn Koslowitz

Complex PTSD & Parenting: Why Control Won’t Save Your Child with Stephanie Foo

APR 15, 202659 MIN
Post Traumatic Parenting

Complex PTSD & Parenting: Why Control Won’t Save Your Child with Stephanie Foo

APR 15, 202659 MIN

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<p>What if the pressure to “get parenting right” is actually coming from your trauma?</p><p></p><p>In this powerful and deeply validating conversation, I sit down with Stephanie Foo, author of What My Bones Know, to unpack what it really means to parent while healing from complex PTSD.</p><p></p><p>Together, we explore the intense fear many trauma survivors carry into parenting; the belief that one wrong move could damage their child forever. We also discuss how modern parenting culture often amplifies that fear instead of easing it.</p><p></p><p>Stephanie shares her personal journey of becoming a mother while navigating C-PTSD, including the anxiety, perfectionism, and overwhelming pressure to control every outcome.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This episode is a must listen for anyone who has ever wondered:</p><p>“Am I messing up my child?”</p><p></p><p></p><p>Topics covered in this episode:</p><p></p><ul><li>Why “perfect parenting” is often a trauma response</li><li>The hidden ways parenting advice can prey on vulnerable moms</li><li>The difference between child distress and actual harm</li><li>Why control doesn’t create safety (and what does instead)</li><li>How C-PTSD shows up in parenting from hyper-attunement to dissociation</li><li>The truth about attachment (hint: you only need to get it right ~30% of the time)</li><li>The role of repair, not perfection, in raising resilient children</li></ul><p></p><p>About the Guest:</p><p></p><p>Stephanie Foo is the author of the bestselling memoir <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/what-my-bones-know-a-memoir-of-healing-from-complex-trauma-stephanie-foo/916e2e6fdff307fd?ean=9780593238127&amp;next=t&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D&amp;utm_content=6443417794&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=16235479093&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld42wm3ZJYOrS192gzz20OPUOL&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjwyYPOBhBxEiwAgpT8P353Fr1ludibZnz305XmuimN8dbxEz4KYcG_sFKBVNuexJAUxJkqshoC0ukQAvD_BwE">What My Bones Know</a>, where she chronicles her journey of healing from complex PTSD. Her work has helped bring C-PTSD into mainstream conversation, giving voice to experiences that were long misunderstood or overlooked. To read more about Stephanie, and to buy a copy of her book, you can visit her website <a href="https://www.stephaniefoo.me/">here</a>.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Connect with me on Instagram<a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.koslowitzpsychology/" style="color:rgb(17,85,204);background-color:rgb(255,255,255);"> @dr.koslowitzpsychology</a> and check out my new book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCSWBL4M" style="color:rgb(17,85,204);background-color:rgb(255,255,255);">Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be</a></p>