<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The moment you finally see yourself is the moment you no longer fear being seen.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jesse Deal&lt;/strong&gt; is a trauma recovery coach, parts work practitioner, and host of the podcast Trauma Unbound. After a lifetime of playing it small, he walked away from the life he&amp;#39;d been surviving in and started building the one he was actually meant for. This is a conversation about the fear of being seen, finding authenticity through parts work, and what happens when you stop waiting to have it all together and just go.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;✨ What this episode explores:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️ &lt;strong&gt;Why Being Seen Feels Dangerous&lt;/strong&gt; — Where the fear of being visible comes from and how to start dismantling the false story it&amp;#39;s been telling you&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️ &lt;strong&gt;Your Body as a Guide&lt;/strong&gt; — How somatic awareness shows you what needs to change and points you toward a life that actually fits.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️ &lt;strong&gt;From Learned Helplessness to Hopefulness&lt;/strong&gt; — How to start building the belief that the world can actually be safe and supportive.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️ &lt;strong&gt;What Parts Work Looks Like in Real Time&lt;/strong&gt; — What it actually sounds like when someone checks in with a protector mid-conversation and comes out the other side more grounded.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️ &lt;strong&gt;When Authenticity Feels Unsafe&lt;/strong&gt; — How learning your feelings were &amp;#34;too much&amp;#34; as a kid taught you that being yourself is what gets you hurt.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jesse&amp;#39;s Links&lt;/strong&gt;🔗 &lt;a href="https://www.traumaunboundcoaching.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Website&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;strong&gt;|&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@traumaunbound" rel="nofollow"&gt;YouTube&lt;/a&gt; &lt;strong&gt;| &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/traumaunbound/" rel="nofollow"&gt;IG&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;strong&gt;| &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://apple.co/3PzdHbN" rel="nofollow"&gt;Apple Podcast&lt;/a&gt; &lt;strong&gt;| &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2nxPhjpE6XzbwnUOhXr0FB?si=65cb87d9b16a436a" rel="nofollow"&gt;Spotify&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;-----------------------&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;🎧 If this episode resonated, you might also love:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️&lt;a href="https://redcircle.com/shows/6cbac788-c2a3-4eaa-bce9-06845e610d8a/episodes/ebdb7f57-7260-42de-81f1-6377d71972df" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ep 168 | &lt;/strong&gt;The Fragmented Self: Parts Work &amp;amp; Dissociation w/ Jesse D.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️&lt;a href="https://redcircle.com/shows/6cbac788-c2a3-4eaa-bce9-06845e610d8a/episodes/aded63d0-2d12-4737-9660-5f60ea7875e7" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ep 190 | &lt;/strong&gt;The Purpose of Our Pain: IFS Therapy to Heal Complex Trauma w/ Tammy Sollenberger&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;▪️&lt;a href="https://redcircle.com/shows/6cbac788-c2a3-4eaa-bce9-06845e610d8a/episodes/8e2210b3-f2d8-4fdc-a11d-f95a7266c5fd" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ep 145 | &lt;/strong&gt;The Journey to Emotional Authenticity w/ Kenny Weiss&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;-----------------------&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;⚓JOIN THE SHITSHOW — The Adult Child Healing Community&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6 weekly Zoom support groups · Discussion boards · Peer connection&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;👉 &lt;a href="http://theshitshow.mn.co/" rel="nofollow"&gt;theshitshow.mn.co&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;🗞️ SIGN UP FOR SHITSHOW NATION&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Get the newsletter for community updates, healing insights &amp;amp; early access to workshops.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;➡️ &lt;a href="https://adultchildpodcast.substack.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Join here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;💁‍♀️ SUPPORT THE POD&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;☕&lt;a href="http://www.buymeacoffee.com/adultchild" rel="nofollow"&gt; Buy Me a Coffee&lt;/a&gt; – help Andrea (and her cats) eat&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;🛍️ &lt;a href="http://www.adultchildpodcast.com/shop" rel="nofollow"&gt;Shop Shitshow Merch&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;💬 CONNECT WITH ANDREA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Instagram → &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/adultchildpod" rel="nofollow"&gt;@adultchildpod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;TikTok → &lt;a href="http://www.tiktok.com/@adultchildpod" rel="nofollow"&gt;@adultchildpod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;YouTube → &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@adultchildpod" rel="nofollow"&gt;@adultchildpod&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;SPONSORS&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Check out Time4Learning: &lt;a href="https://www.time4learning.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;https://www.time4learning.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Our Sponsors:&lt;br/&gt;* Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Advertising Inquiries: &lt;a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'&gt;https://redcircle.com/brands&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Privacy &amp; Opt-Out: &lt;a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'&gt;https://redcircle.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt;</description>

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

224 - Scared to Be Seen: Finding Authenticity Through Parts Work w/ Jesse Deal

APR 1, 202664 MIN
Adult Child

224 - Scared to Be Seen: Finding Authenticity Through Parts Work w/ Jesse Deal

APR 1, 202664 MIN

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The moment you finally see yourself is the moment you no longer fear being seen.Jesse Deal is a trauma recovery coach, parts work practitioner, and host of the podcast Trauma Unbound. After a lifetime of playing it small, he walked away from the life he'd been surviving in and started building the one he was actually meant for. This is a conversation about the fear of being seen, finding authenticity through parts work, and what happens when you stop waiting to have it all together and just go.✨ What this episode explores:▪️ Why Being Seen Feels Dangerous — Where the fear of being visible comes from and how to start dismantling the false story it's been telling you▪️ Your Body as a Guide — How somatic awareness shows you what needs to change and points you toward a life that actually fits.▪️ From Learned Helplessness to Hopefulness — How to start building the belief that the world can actually be safe and supportive.▪️ What Parts Work Looks Like in Real Time — What it actually sounds like when someone checks in with a protector mid-conversation and comes out the other side more grounded.▪️ When Authenticity Feels Unsafe — How learning your feelings were "too much" as a kid taught you that being yourself is what gets you hurt.Jesse's Links🔗 Website.| YouTube | IG. | Apple Podcast | Spotify-----------------------🎧 If this episode resonated, you might also love:▪️Ep 168 | The Fragmented Self: Parts Work & Dissociation w/ Jesse D.▪️Ep 190 | The Purpose of Our Pain: IFS Therapy to Heal Complex Trauma w/ Tammy Sollenberger▪️Ep 145 | The Journey to Emotional Authenticity w/ Kenny Weiss-----------------------⚓JOIN THE SHITSHOW — The Adult Child Healing Community6 weekly Zoom support groups · Discussion boards · Peer connection👉 theshitshow.mn.co🗞️ SIGN UP FOR SHITSHOW NATIONGet the newsletter for community updates, healing insights & early access to workshops.➡️ Join here💁‍♀️ SUPPORT THE POD☕ Buy Me a Coffee – help Andrea (and her cats) eat🛍️ Shop Shitshow Merch💬 CONNECT WITH ANDREAInstagram → @adultchildpodTikTok → @adultchildpodYouTube → @adultchildpodSPONSORSCheck out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy