<description>&lt;p&gt;This is a powerful conversation on reclaiming your relationship with your body. 💫 Anne Poirier shares her journey through anorexia, yo-yo dieting, and body shame that finally shifted at a breaking point after knee surgery. The episode introduces body neutrality 🌿 as the path to healing—moving away from self-judgment and toward gratitude by focusing on what the body &lt;em&gt;does&lt;/em&gt; rather than how it looks. It dives into breaking the “when I, then I” trap ⛓️, reconnecting with intuition 🧠, and taking back personal power from diets and external authority, while reframing movement as a tool for independence and living fully now ❤️‍🔥.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Gift:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;E-book: Unlocking Body Confidence: &lt;a href="https://shapingperspectives.com/confidence/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://shapingperspectives.com/confidence/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Offers:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Our Book (episode 249) - Empowered: The Journey From Victim Island To Solution City: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1989849776?psc=1&amp;amp;smid=A3DWYIK6Y9EEQB&amp;amp;ref_=chk_typ_imgToDp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1989849776?psc=1&amp;amp;smid=A3DWYIK6Y9EEQB&amp;amp;ref_=chk_typ_imgToDp&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Quantum Life Mastery School:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href="https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/quantum-life-mastery-school" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/quantum-life-mastery-school&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Introduction video about Girls Matter: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Light Circle Membership:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-core" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-core&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Meet Your Unconscious Mind Workshop: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/um" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/um&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;FREE 7 Day Trial:&lt;/strong&gt; NuCalm Products to recalibrate your nervous system / improve your sleep:: &lt;a href="https://nucalm.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://nucalm.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Use my promo code at checkout: &lt;strong&gt;YGHJ to get 15% off&lt;/strong&gt; your monthly subscription, every month. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;h1&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Episode Summary: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Key Takeaways&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=104.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Personal Journey to Purpose:&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=104.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Poirier's 30-year struggle with anorexia and yo-yo dieting, fueled by childhood body-shaming, ended after a knee replacement forced a "breaking point" and a career pivot to helping others.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=1003.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Body Neutrality as the Path:&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=1003.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; The core philosophy is to shift from body hatred to gratitude by focusing on function over appearance. This creates a neutral middle ground—an "inner ally"—that enables healing.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=384.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Reclaiming Personal Agency:&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=384.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; A key theme is reclaiming power from external authorities (doctors, diets) by listening to one's own body and intuition. Poirier's anger at the lack of public education on diet science (e.g., the 1944 starvation experiment) fueled her mission.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=1522.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;Movement for Independence:&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://fathom.video/share/A_hRyVUxRuaXH8Q4UE1MJKuuxsHGuooJ?tab=summary&amp;amp;timestamp=1522.0" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt; Exercise should be reframed from a weight-loss tool to a means of maintaining independence and quality of life, enabling activities like playing with grandkids.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h2&gt;Topics&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Poirier's Personal Journey&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Early Programming:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Childhood messages ("chubby," "sturdy") and a doctor's weight warning created a belief that her body was "wrong."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Anorexia &amp;amp; Yo-Yo Dieting:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;A 3-year battle with anorexia was followed by a 30-year cycle of yo-yo dieting and compulsive exercise.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;The "Breaking Point":&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;A knee replacement forced a pause, revealing the cycle's futility. This led to journaling, self-reflection, and a career pivot to help others.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h3&gt;The "When I, Then I" Trap&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Societal Conditioning:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;The "when I lose the weight, then I'll be happy" mindset is a trap based on external validation.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Internal Work First:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;True change must start internally. Poirier's "don't wait for your wake up call" philosophy means living life fully&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;u&gt;now&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;in one's "here and now body."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Body Neutrality &amp;amp; Gratitude&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;The Middle Ground:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Body neutrality is a neutral space between hatred and forced love, which is often unattainable.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Function Over Appearance:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;The key is shifting focus from appearance to function (e.g., heart pumping, breathing, digestion).&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;The "Good Gift" Analogy:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Treat your body like a "good gift" (your only home) to care for it, rather than a "bad gift" to be neglected.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;h3&gt;Reclaiming Personal Agency&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Power of Intuition:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Reclaim power from external authorities (doctors, diets) by listening to your body's signals (hunger, fullness, energy).&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Advocacy is Essential:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Advocate for yourself, especially when medical advice feels dismissive.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Movement for Independence:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt; &lt;/u&gt;Exercise should be reframed as a tool for maintaining independence and quality of life, not for weight management.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;About the Guest:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anne Poirier, CSCS, is a nationally recognized Body Image Expert, Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, and author of The Body Joyful: My Journey from Self-Loathing to Self-Acceptance. With a degree in Exercise Science and over 30 years in health and wellness, Anne has turned her own recovery from eating disorders and body shame into a mission to help others find freedom and peace with food, movement, and themselves.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; A pioneer in the body neutrality movement, Anne’s insights have been featured in Shape, Women’s Health, The New York Times, Washington Post, HuffPost, ABC, FOX, CBS, and NPR.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Her major accomplishments include publishing The Body Joyful, Not a Fat Annie and The Body Neutrality Playbook, and partnering with researcher Kayla Nuss on the NoWeigh app. She also served on the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) Lived Experience Task Force and leads Shaping Perspectives… A Woman’s Way to Joy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Contacts:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Shaping perspectives website. &lt;a href="https://shapingperspectives.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://shapingperspectives.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; LinkTree: &lt;a href="https://linktr.ee/annepoirier11" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://linktr.ee/annepoirier11&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Instagram &lt;a href="https://www.instagram.com/annepoirier11/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://www.instagram.com/annepoirier11/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Linked In &lt;a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-poirier-72b66344/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-poirier-72b66344/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; YouTube &lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/@annepoirier114" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"&gt;https://www.youtube.com/@annepoirier114&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;About the Host:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="ql-align-justify"&gt;Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Master Trainer of Hypnotherapy, Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="ql-align-justify"&gt;Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills</description>

Don't Wait For Your Wake Up Call!

Melissa Deally

From Body Shame to Inner Ally đź’« | Ep 275

JUN 13, 202633 MIN
Don't Wait For Your Wake Up Call!

From Body Shame to Inner Ally đź’« | Ep 275

JUN 13, 202633 MIN

Description

This is a powerful conversation on reclaiming your relationship with your body. 💫 Anne Poirier shares her journey through anorexia, yo-yo dieting, and body shame that finally shifted at a breaking point after knee surgery. The episode introduces body neutrality 🌿 as the path to healing—moving away from self-judgment and toward gratitude by focusing on what the body does rather than how it looks. It dives into breaking the “when I, then I” trap ⛓️, reconnecting with intuition 🧠, and taking back personal power from diets and external authority, while reframing movement as a tool for independence and living fully now ❤️‍🔥.Gift:E-book: Unlocking Body Confidence: https://shapingperspectives.com/confidence/ Offers:Our Book (episode 249) - Empowered: The Journey From Victim Island To Solution City: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1989849776?psc=1&smid=A3DWYIK6Y9EEQB&ref_=chk_typ_imgToDpQuantum Life Mastery School: https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/quantum-life-mastery-schoolIntroduction video about Girls Matter: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/viewThe Light Circle Membership:https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-coreMeet Your Unconscious Mind Workshop: https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/umFREE 7 Day Trial: NuCalm Products to recalibrate your nervous system / improve your sleep:: https://nucalm.comUse my promo code at checkout: YGHJ to get 15% off your monthly subscription, every month. Episode Summary: Key TakeawaysPersonal Journey to Purpose: Poirier's 30-year struggle with anorexia and yo-yo dieting, fueled by childhood body-shaming, ended after a knee replacement forced a "breaking point" and a career pivot to helping others.Body Neutrality as the Path: The core philosophy is to shift from body hatred to gratitude by focusing on function over appearance. This creates a neutral middle ground—an "inner ally"—that enables healing.Reclaiming Personal Agency: A key theme is reclaiming power from external authorities (doctors, diets) by listening to one's own body and intuition. Poirier's anger at the lack of public education on diet science (e.g., the 1944 starvation experiment) fueled her mission.Movement for Independence: Exercise should be reframed from a weight-loss tool to a means of maintaining independence and quality of life, enabling activities like playing with grandkids.TopicsPoirier's Personal JourneyEarly Programming: Childhood messages ("chubby," "sturdy") and a doctor's weight warning created a belief that her body was "wrong."Anorexia & Yo-Yo Dieting: A 3-year battle with anorexia was followed by a 30-year cycle of yo-yo dieting and compulsive exercise.The "Breaking Point": A knee replacement forced a pause, revealing the cycle's futility. This led to journaling, self-reflection, and a career pivot to help others.The "When I, Then I" TrapSocietal Conditioning: The "when I lose the weight, then I'll be happy" mindset is a trap based on external validation.Internal Work First: True change must start internally. Poirier's "don't wait for your wake up call" philosophy means living life fully now in one's "here and now body."Body Neutrality & GratitudeThe Middle Ground: Body neutrality is a neutral space between hatred and forced love, which is often unattainable.Function Over Appearance: The key is shifting focus from appearance to function (e.g., heart pumping, breathing, digestion).The "Good Gift" Analogy: Treat your body like a "good gift" (your only home) to care for it, rather than a "bad gift" to be neglected.Reclaiming Personal AgencyPower of Intuition: Reclaim power from external authorities (doctors, diets) by listening to your body's signals (hunger, fullness, energy).Advocacy is Essential: Advocate for yourself, especially when medical advice feels dismissive.Movement for Independence: Exercise should be reframed as a tool for maintaining independence and quality of life, not for weight management.About the Guest: Anne Poirier, CSCS, is a nationally recognized Body Image Expert, Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, and author of The Body Joyful: My Journey from Self-Loathing to Self-Acceptance. With a degree in Exercise Science and over 30 years in health and wellness, Anne has turned her own recovery from eating disorders and body shame into a mission to help others find freedom and peace with food, movement, and themselves. A pioneer in the body neutrality movement, Anne’s insights have been featured in Shape, Women’s Health, The New York Times, Washington Post, HuffPost, ABC, FOX, CBS, and NPR. Her major accomplishments include publishing The Body Joyful, Not a Fat Annie and The Body Neutrality Playbook, and partnering with researcher Kayla Nuss on the NoWeigh app. She also served on the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) Lived Experience Task Force and leads Shaping Perspectives… A Woman’s Way to Joy.Contacts:Shaping perspectives website. https://shapingperspectives.com/ LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/annepoirier11 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/annepoirier11/ Linked In https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-poirier-72b66344/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@annepoirier114About the Host:Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Master Trainer of Hypnotherapy, Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you want to be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you! Melissa’s passion project is her non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time. The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her own children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause. Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_linkMelissa is also the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more! She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started. Linktree: https://linktr.ee/yourguidedhealthjourneyThanks for listening!If you know somebody who would benefit from this message, or would be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below!Subscribe to the podcast!If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe on the podcast app on your mobile device.Leave us a review!We appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes goes a long way! Thank You!!