<p>The fawn response is one of the most misunderstood patterns in men’s psychology. It doesn’t look like weakness. It looks like generosity, agreeableness, and keeping the peace. But underneath it, there’s usually a man who is terrified of being rejected, disconnected from his own needs, and slowly building resentment he has no healthy outlet for.</p> <p>That’s exactly where this conversation goes.</p> <p>In this episode of the Men’s Therapy Podcast, host <a href='http://linkedin.com/in/marcmazoulay'>Marc Azoulay</a> sits down with <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drnimarahmany/'>Nima Rahmany</a> — ex-chiropractor turned men’s coach and founder of the <a href='https://becometriggerproof.com/'>Becoming Trigger Proof</a> framework — to unpack why so many high-performing men are secretly running a <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/healing-nice-guy-within-dr-robert-glover/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>fawn response</a> in their relationships, and why no amount of mindset work or <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/personal-development-modern-man-anthony-astbury/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>personal development</a> fixes it.</p> <p>The episode is honest, direct, and at times uncomfortable, exactly the kind of conversation most men have never had. Nima opens with a personal story of becoming physically violent in a relationship, tracing it back not to anger, but to years of fawning: <a href='https://menstherapy.online/blog/nice-guy-mental-health/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>people-pleasing</a>, self-abandoning, and suppressing his truth out of fear. That moment of violence, he explains, was the explosion that follows years of suffocation.</p> <p><em>“Fawning is saying yes when the body is saying no.”</em></p> <p>And for many men, it is so ingrained it doesn’t even register as a choice.</p> <p>The episode covers:</p> <ul> <li> How the fawn response develops as a childhood survival strategy</li> <li> Why <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/unmasking-nice-guy-syndrome-narcissism-dr-les-carter/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>nice guy syndrome</a> is not about being kind, it’s about avoiding guilt and rejection</li> <li> How <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/generational-trauma-boarding-schools-piers-cross/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>trauma</a> is stored in the body and what <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/healing-the-nervous-system-w-amy-novotny/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>nervous system regulation</a> actually looks like</li> <li> The role of <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/shadow-work-secret-lives-angry-nice-guys/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>shadow work</a> and attachment theory in breaking the cycle</li> <li> How to stop people pleasing without overcorrecting into dominance or <a href='https://menstherapy.online/podcasts/truth-about-numbness-emotional-shutdown-modern-men/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=Blog&amp;utm_campaign=Blog'>detachment</a></li> <li> What it means to become the “loving patriarch” — boundaried, grounded, and open-hearted</li> </ul> <p>Nima is direct, personal, and deeply knowledgeable. He isn’t offering a theory. He lived it. And the result is a framework that’s changing how men relate to themselves and the people they love.</p> <p>For more podcasts, blogs, and to get involved in the Men's Therapy Online Community, visit <a href='http://www.menstherapy.online'>www.menstherapy.online</a>.</p> <p>Follow us on social media: <a href='https://mtr.bio/mens-therapy-online'>https://mtr.bio/mens-therapy-online</a>.</p>