What happens when a self-proclaimed couch potato decides to plunge into some of the coldest waters on earth? You get Ryan Stramrood, world record ice swimmer, Antarctic adventurer, and performance coach who’s redefined what it means to push past impossible.
In this episode of Decidedly, we dive deep (literally and figuratively) into Ryan’s journey from ordinary beginnings in Cape Town to becoming one of the world’s most acclaimed extreme swimmers. Along the way, Ryan shares how the freezing waters of Antarctica, the English Channel, and countless Robben Island crossings taught him the truth about fear, resilience, and decision making under pressure.
If you’ve ever wanted to know where real growth happens – in business, leadership, and life – this conversation will change the way you think about your limits.
KEY TOPICS
Why cold water exposes the real limits of the human mind and body
The difference between your “mind’s endpoint” and your true endpoint, and where the magic happens
How to train your brain to stay calm under extreme stress and discomfort
What endurance swimming teaches us about leadership, decision making, and business growth
The importance of finishing the process, and why the hardest part comes after the swim
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
06:30 The Mental and Physical Impact of Cold Water
13:00 Pushing Past the Mind’s Endpoint
17:30 Lessons from the Robben Island Swim
21:00 English Channel vs. Everest
25:40 Training the Body & Mind for Extreme Cold
30:00 Finding Flow and Spiritual Connection
37:00 Lessons in Decision Making from Extreme Swimming
40:00 Near-Death Experiences and Respecting Limits
45:00 Swimming Antarctica: The Coldest Challenge
52:00 The After Drop and Recovery
57:00 Business Takeaways: Growth Happens in Discomfort
If you’ve ever wondered how to face fear, embrace discomfort, and discover what’s possible beyond your limits, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
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Ryan Stramrood is a world-renowned extreme swimmer from Cape Town who has completed 144 Robben Island crossings, the English Channel, and the first official “Ice Mile” in Antarctica. Once a self-described couch potato, his journey from everyday beginnings to record-breaking cold-water feats reveals the extraordinary power of grit, mindset, and pushing past perceived limits. Today, Ryan shares his story as an inspiring speaker, showing audiences that growth begins where comfort ends — and that the impossible is often closer than we think.
What do Michael Jordan, Dean Smith, and high-performing CEOs all have in common? The answer: culture beats talent every time.
In this episode of Decidedly, we sit down with Coach Matt Doherty, 1982 UNC National Champion, former head coach of the Tar Heels, and now an executive coach for business leaders. From cutting down nets with Jordan to coaching at Notre Dame and UNC, Doherty has lived through the highs of championships and the lows of leadership challenges.
Coach Doherty shares stories from the locker room, the boardroom, and beyond, showing exactly how to apply championship-level leadership to your business, team, or career.
KEY TOPICS
The untold lessons from Dean Smith’s legendary “Play Hard, Play Smart, Play Together” culture
Why culture, not just systems or talent, is the deciding factor for winning teams and thriving companies
The three things only a CEO (or head coach) can do — and why you can’t outsource them
How to rebound from setbacks and turn failure into fuel for future success
Why every leader needs a personal board of directors to make better decisions
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
02:38 The Esteemed Title of 'Coach'
04:23 Impact of Coaches on Young Lives
11:11 Journey to North Carolina
12:32 Winning the 1982 Championship
13:28 Core Values and Team Culture
18:18 Challenges of Following a Legendary Coach
23:18 Lessons in Leadership and Executive Coaching
24:46 Navigating Relationships with Mentors
25:48 Leadership and Emotional Intelligence
29:50 Managing Up and Organizational Dynamics
33:15 Building and Motivating Teams
36:30 Vision, Culture, and Systems in Leadership
45:13 Decision Making and Peer Advisory
48:44 Conclusion and Key Takeaways
If you’ve ever wondered how champions are built – in sports or in business – this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
#Leadership #Basketball #ExecutiveCoaching #DecidedlyPodcast
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Coach Matt Doherty, a nationally recognized motivational speaker, best-selling author, and executive coach, began his leadership journey as a starter on the 1982 UNC National Championship team alongside Michael Jordan under the legendary Dean Smith. He went on to become Head Coach at Notre Dame and North Carolina—earning AP National Coach of the Year in 2001—and has since worked with ESPN, the Indiana Pacers, and major corporations to strengthen leadership, culture, and team dynamics. Today, through keynotes, media appearances, and executive coaching, Coach Doherty shares actionable lessons from the court to the boardroom with a simple mission: “Learn & Grow” every day.
Are you as good at making decisions as you think you are? 🤔
In this replay of the Decidedly Podcast, we sit down with repeat guest Don Moore, UC Berkeley professor and author of Perfectly Confident and Decision Leadership, to unpack the hidden dangers of overconfidence and overprecision in business, investing, parenting, and everyday life.
You’ll learn:
✅ What the Dunning–Kruger effect really means (and how to spot it in yourself)
✅ Why most people are too sure about their decisions — and what that costs them
✅ How probabilistic thinking can sharpen your choices in business and beyond
✅ The difference between confidence that fuels success vs. confidence that blinds you
✅ Real-world examples: from parenting choices to market predictions to AI hallucinations
If you’ve ever wondered why smart people still make bad decisions — and how to avoid being one of them — this conversation is packed with actionable wisdom.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro: Defeating bad decision-making in life & business
02:00 – Why new parents are overconfident
05:30 – The Dunning-Kruger effect in parenting and beyond
07:40 – What is over-precision, and why does it matter?
12:20 – The dangers of overconfidence in business and investing
16:55 – Why successful people struggle with decision-making
19:20 – The power of having language for decision-making biases
21:45 – How thinking in probabilities leads to better choices
24:05 – Market predictions, uncertainty, and decision paralysis
26:20 – How hobbies and competition keep us humble
28:50 – The behaviors that make people more (or less) overconfident
31:05 – The surprising gift of criticism
33:25 – Parenting, teenage rebellion, and overconfidence
36:50 – Overconfidence in parenting decisions
39:10 – Avoiding regret and learning from imperfect decisions
41:20 – Why most people misinterpret their financial wins
43:45 – Is AI overconfident? The risk of machine-generated certainty
46:00 – The problem with certainty in AI, investing, and life
48:30 – Why demanding 100% certainty keeps you stuck
50:30 – What Sanger has learned from hosting Decidedly
55:10 – The importance of embracing uncertainty in business and life
57:35 – Don’s top decision-making tip for business owners
57:47 – Where to connect with Don Moore
58:16 – Key Takeaways
59:29 – Message from the Producer
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Don Moore holds the Lorraine Tyson Mitchell Chair in Leadership at the Haas School of Business at the University of California at Berkeley. His research interests include overconfidence, including when people think they are better than they actually are, when people think they are better than others, and when they are too sure they know the truth. He is only occasionally overconfident.
What if the biggest threat to your business growth wasn’t a lack of ideas—but chasing the wrong ones?
In this episode of Decidedly, we sit down with Tim Hines – fractional CMO, business coach, and author – to unpack how entrepreneurs can stop wasting time on “shiny objects” and start building marketing strategies that actually drive revenue. With years of experience helping companies go from zero to one, Tim shares what it takes to align marketing with business goals, avoid costly mistakes, and harness authenticity in a noisy marketplace.
From breaking free of vanity metrics to learning why most founders set their teams up to fail, Tim reveals the blueprint for creating marketing systems that scale. We explore why small businesses often misunderstand marketing, how to think like a starter without burning out, and why authenticity is the only real filter left in today’s AI-saturated world.
This conversation isn’t about flashy campaigns – it’s about clarity, focus, and making decisions that move the needle. If you’ve ever wondered how to build marketing that works for your stage of business, this episode will help you decide what really matters.
KEY TOPICS
Fractional CMO insights: when to hire one and why
The #1 mistake startups make when starting marketing
Why chasing “shiny objects” kills growth
Marketing as investment vs. cost center
Funnels, metrics, and why most companies don’t track them
B2B vs. B2C marketing: what really changes
Content marketing myths (and the dangers of AI copy-paste)
How to know if your in-house marketing is holding you back
Why authenticity is the strongest filter for modern brands
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
03:00 Why Marketing Starts with Business Goals
07:45 Shiny Object Syndrome: Common Startup Mistakes
12:00 Funnels, Metrics, and Why Most Companies Don’t Track Them
17:15 B2B vs. B2C Marketing – What Really Changes
22:00 Content Marketing Myths and AI Pitfalls
26:00 Authenticity as the Last Real Filter in Business
30:00 Starters vs. Finishers: Knowing Your Strengths
36:00 The “In-House Marketing” Trap for Small Businesses
41:00 Marketing as Investment, Not Expense
47:00 Tim’s Top Decision-Making Tip for Entrepreneurs
#StartupMarketing #MarketingStrategy #BusinessGrowth #FractionalCMO #Entrepreneurship #AuthenticMarketing #MarketingMistakes #SmallBusinessMarketing #ContentMarketingMyths #RevenueGrowth #MarketingTips #DecidedlyPodcast
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Tim Hines is a global keynote speaker, business coach, author, podcaster, and four-time founder who helps professionals grow by becoming more collaborative, innovative, and influential. He’s worked with top organizations like Ticketmaster, Air France, and the CIA, authored The Marketing Starter, and hosts The Marketing Starter Podcast. A Chicago native now in Austin with his wife, daughter, and two dogs, Tim is also a trained standup comedian and licensed marriage minister.
What if the key to resilience wasn’t about avoiding suffering—but learning to embrace it with grit, faith, and silence?
In this episode of Decidedly, we sit down with Father Stephen J. Gadberry – Catholic priest, Air Force veteran, and ultra-endurance athlete – to uncover how tragedy, discipline, and devotion shaped his approach to decision-making and leadership. From losing his father and sister in a car accident at age eight, to serving in the military, to leading thousands in his parish, Father Stephen reveals how resilience is forged in silence and tested in service.
We dive deep into the role of suffering in spiritual growth, the power of identity before mission, and why leaders must learn to “know where their mess is.” This conversation isn’t about perfection – it’s about the freedom that comes from honesty, faith, and radical perseverance. If you’ve ever wrestled with pain, purpose, or what it means to lead with integrity, this episode will shift how you see your own journey.
KEY TOPICS
How childhood tragedy forged resilience and grit
Why silence is essential for strong decision-making
The dangers of radical independence, and how to ask for help
Vulnerability in leadership: why showing your mess frees others
Faith, perseverance, and the gift of suffering
Identity before mission: why who you are comes before what you do
How to discern between God’s will and personal preference
Why men are hungry for authentic guidance, and what leaders must do about it
Lessons from endurance racing, the military, and the priesthood
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
03:15 Father Stephen’s Childhood Tragedy and Early Faith
07:45 How Grit Became the Theme of His Life
10:30 Resilience, Independence, and Asking for Help
14:20 Discernment: God’s Will vs. Personal Preference
18:00 Vulnerability and Leadership in the Church
21:15 Why Men Are Craving Authentic Guidance
25:00 Identity Before Mission: The Foundation of Leadership
28:15 Making Hard Decisions and Setting Boundaries
32:00 The Role of Coachability in Growth and Faith
35:40 Training for the Leadville 100 and Lessons from Endurance Sports
40:00 Competing on American Ninja Warrior to Preach the Gospel
43:15 Wrestling with Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Discernment
47:00 Father Stephen’s Top Tip for Decision-Making: Silence
#FaithAndResilience #DecisionMaking #CatholicPodcast #FatherStephen #GritAndGrace #LeadershipThroughFaith #ResilientLiving #SpiritualGrowth #IdentityBeforeMission #VulnerabilityInLeadership #DecidedlyPodcast #TrueFaith #PowerOfSilence #HealingThroughFaith #CatholicLeadership
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Father Stephen Gadberry, a native of the Arkansas Delta, is a Catholic priest for the Diocese of Little Rock, ordained in 2016. A U.S. Air Force veteran before studying philosophy at St. Joseph Seminary College and earning advanced theology degrees in Rome, specializing in St. Augustine and Cardinal Ratzinger.
A fellow of the Word on Fire Institute, Father Stephen is active in Bishop Robert Barron’s ministries. He appeared on American Ninja Warrior in 2018 and currently serves as pastor of St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Batesville and St. Cecilia’s in Newport, as well as dean of the Northeast Arkansas deanery.