<description>&lt;p&gt;This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mentioned in this episode:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0415538653/?tag=slatmaga-20"&gt;&lt;em&gt;My New Gender Workbook&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by Kate Bornstein&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;here&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Production by Chau Tu.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

It feels really unfair.

This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.Mentioned in this episode:<a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0415538653/?tag=slatmaga-20">My New Gender Workbook</a> by Kate Bornstein***Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a>.Production by Chau Tu. <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.

<description>&lt;p&gt;Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Read the How to Do It column on Slate &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Production by Chau Tu.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

In retrospect, this may have been a mistake.

Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a>. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a> or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend

Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a>. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a> or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

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Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.
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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!
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<description>&lt;p&gt;This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Read the How to Do It column on Slate &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Production by Chau Tu.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

The women in their 20s are the worst.

This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a>. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a> or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy

<description>&lt;p&gt;This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Read the How to Do It column on Slate &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in &lt;a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Production by Chau Tu.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;hr&gt;&lt;p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'&gt; Hosted on Acast. See &lt;a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'&gt;acast.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt; for more information.&lt;/p&gt;</description>

I feel like I’m losing my mind.

This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer who is overwhelmed by her partner’s daily sexual needs, and they discuss a letter from a man who wonders if his post-sex feelings are normal.***Read the How to Do It column on Slate <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a>. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in <a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it">here</a> or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!Production by Chau Tu. <hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands

For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.<hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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