<p>This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.</p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode:</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0415538653/?tag=slatmaga-20"><em>My New Gender Workbook</em></a> by Kate Bornstein</p><p>***</p><p><strong>Continue following Rich and Stoya and their How to Do It column on Slate </strong><a href="https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it"><strong>here</strong></a><strong>.</strong></p><p>Production by Chau Tu.</p><p> </p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>