<description>&lt;div&gt;In this episode, I share the deeper psychological lessons inside the new Diddy documentary, not to debate guilt or innocence, but to understand the &lt;em&gt;human systems&lt;/em&gt; that create cycles of power, harm, silence, and attachment. This isn’t a Hollywood story or an industry story. It’s a human story. The documentary made Diddy feel more human rather than less, and that’s what makes it so unsettling. When you look closely at the incentives, the grooming, the rewards, the fear, the validation, and the primal drives behind the behavior, you start to see a spectrum that exists in all of us — the universal instincts for status, belonging, intimacy, dominance, and connection.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; I also talk about Cassie, Kirk Burrowes, and the partners who stayed inside that ecosystem, not to blame but to understand the psychological gravity of coercive control. When we understand the forces acting on people — the love-bombing, the fear, the dependency, the identity fusion — we gain clarity on why people stay, why people participate, and why some people break free. This video is ultimately about human nature, accountability, restraint, and how to build relationships where love and power don’t collapse into each other.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; If you or someone you care about has experienced sexual assault or abuse, you are not alone. For confidential, 24/7 support from trained specialists, visit RAINN: &lt;a href="https://rainn.org/"&gt;https://rainn.org/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; In an emergency, dial 911 or seek help from someone you trust.&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Want more Lover?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt; Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → &lt;a href="http://loversbyshan.com"&gt;http://loversbyshan.com&lt;br&gt; &lt;/a&gt;Receive the weekly Love Letter → &lt;a href="http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter"&gt;http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter&lt;br&gt; &lt;/a&gt;Join the Lovers Community → &lt;a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community"&gt;https://www.loversbyshan.com/community&lt;br&gt; &lt;/a&gt;Explore quizzes and worksheets → &lt;a href="http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes"&gt;http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt; </description>

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S2 Ep149: Diddy is Not a Monster, Cassie is Not a Saint | A solo episode on Sean Combs the Reckoning

DEC 10, 202532 MIN
LOVERS by shan

S2 Ep149: Diddy is Not a Monster, Cassie is Not a Saint | A solo episode on Sean Combs the Reckoning

DEC 10, 202532 MIN

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<div>In this episode, I share the deeper psychological lessons inside the new Diddy documentary, not to debate guilt or innocence, but to understand the <em>human systems</em> that create cycles of power, harm, silence, and attachment. This isn’t a Hollywood story or an industry story. It’s a human story. The documentary made Diddy feel more human rather than less, and that’s what makes it so unsettling. When you look closely at the incentives, the grooming, the rewards, the fear, the validation, and the primal drives behind the behavior, you start to see a spectrum that exists in all of us — the universal instincts for status, belonging, intimacy, dominance, and connection.<br> <br> I also talk about Cassie, Kirk Burrowes, and the partners who stayed inside that ecosystem, not to blame but to understand the psychological gravity of coercive control. When we understand the forces acting on people — the love-bombing, the fear, the dependency, the identity fusion — we gain clarity on why people stay, why people participate, and why some people break free. This video is ultimately about human nature, accountability, restraint, and how to build relationships where love and power don’t collapse into each other.<br> <br> If you or someone you care about has experienced sexual assault or abuse, you are not alone. For confidential, 24/7 support from trained specialists, visit RAINN: <a href="https://rainn.org/">https://rainn.org/</a><br> <br> In an emergency, dial 911 or seek help from someone you trust.<br> <br> <br> <strong>Want more Lover?</strong><br> Shan’s AI trained to give you her advice → <a href="http://loversbyshan.com">http://loversbyshan.com<br> </a>Receive the weekly Love Letter → <a href="http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter">http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter<br> </a>Join the Lovers Community → <a href="https://www.loversbyshan.com/community">https://www.loversbyshan.com/community<br> </a>Explore quizzes and worksheets → <a href="http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes">http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes</a> </div>