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Thoughts May Vary

Gabriela Ulloa & Meadowlark Monaghan

120. Creating Structure Around A Spark Q&A

SEP 17, 202438 MIN
Thoughts May Vary

120. Creating Structure Around A Spark Q&A

SEP 17, 202438 MIN

Description

How to balance structure with acting on creative inspiration, how to not take things so personally, a sty in the eye, and Bethany Mota. We can’t explain it either. 


0:00 Gaby has been emotionally placating Meadow

7:21 How to structure a spark

12:40 How to stop taking things personally

18:15 What are some ways to get over anxiety around uncontrollably situations (specifically in relationships)

24:10 How to deal with nostalgia all the time 

29:32 What are you looking forward to in the fall 



Don’t forget to DM us on IG or submit a question on thoughtsmayvary.com to have your question or theme unpacked on a future episode! 


Use code THOUGHTS for 15% off all CLEARSTEM products https://glnk.io/rqop/thoughts


SHOP “CO-CREATE” TMV’S MANIFESTATION JOURNAL: 

https://www.thoughtsmayvary.com/the-tmv-shop


Discount codes, extra unpackings, journal prompts, vlogging (+more!) all happening with our familia over on Patreon. Come hang out — https://www.patreon.com/thoughtsmayvary


🎙️ Listen anywhere you get your podcasts 🎙️

🎥 Watch episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@thoughtsmayvary  

🫠 Follow along, we're funny on the internet sometimes

https://www.thoughtsmayvary.com/

https://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypod

https://www.tiktok.com/@thoughtsmayvarypod

Threads @thoughtsmayvarypod

Meadow: https://www.instagram.com/itsmeadowlark

Gaby: https://www.instagram.com/gabyulloa_


DISCLAIMER: We are not licensed professionals. If you are seeking licensed and professional mental health support, please reach out to 741-741 (The Crisis Text Line) or The NAMI Helpline or The Trevor Project or reach out to us for more resources.




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