<h2>Understanding Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria with Alex Partridge</h2><p>In this bonus episode of <strong>Two Women Chatting</strong>, Michelle speaks with <strong>Alex Partridge</strong>, host of <strong>ADHD Chatter podcast</strong> and author of <em>Why Does Everybody Hate Me? Living and Loving with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria</em>.</p><p>Together they explore <strong>Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD)</strong> - an intense emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection that is commonly experienced by people with ADHD or autism. Alex shares personal insights into how RSD can shape relationships, self-confidence and everyday interactions.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>What is Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria?</h3><p>Alex explains that RSD is one of the most challenging aspects of living with ADHD. Even small comments or situations - like a boss asking for a quick chat - can trigger overwhelming anxiety and catastrophic thinking. These reactions are often rooted in years of criticism or misunderstanding during childhood.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>The Emotional Impact</h3><p>For many people, RSD can cause powerful emotional responses that feel disproportionate to the situation. Feelings of sadness, anger or panic can escalate quickly, creating a cycle of shame and regret once the emotional response has passed.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>Relationships and Self-Perception</h3><p>Michelle and Alex discuss how RSD can affect both personal and professional relationships. When feedback feels like a personal attack, people may react defensively or impulsively - quitting jobs, withdrawing from relationships or later apologising for emotional reactions they feel embarrassed about.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>The People-Pleasing Trap</h3><p>Alex highlights how many people with RSD develop people-pleasing behaviours in an attempt to avoid rejection. While it can feel protective in the moment, constantly prioritising other people’s needs can lead to unhealthy dynamics and difficulty setting boundaries.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>Women and ADHD</h3><p>The conversation also touches on the unique challenges faced by women with ADHD, many of whom are diagnosed later in life. Alex emphasises the importance of giving women a stronger voice in the neurodiversity conversation, particularly around hormonal changes and how ADHD can present differently for women.</p><br><p><br></p><h3>Key Takeaways</h3><p>• Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria can trigger intense emotional reactions to perceived criticism.</p><p>• These reactions can create a cycle of shame that affects relationships and self-confidence.</p><p>• People-pleasing is a common coping strategy but can lead to unhealthy patterns.</p><p>• Women with ADHD often face unique challenges and are frequently diagnosed later in life.</p><p>Through his honesty and advocacy, Alex Partridge helps bring greater understanding to RSD and offers reassurance to anyone who has struggled with feeling overwhelmed by criticism or rejection.</p><br><p>Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, ADHD, neurodiversity, mental health awareness, emotional intelligence, Alex Partridge, women and ADHD.</p><p>👉 Follow the show so you never miss an episode, and share it with a friend who could use a little midlife magic.</p><br><p>Explore the 'midlife library' at <a href="http://www.twowomenchatting.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">www.twowomenchatting.com</a></p><p>Connect with Michelle at <a href="mailto:
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