You'll never find anyone to love you, until you love yourself. Vanessa didn't love herself and she had come to terms with that. Then along came Este. In this episode, Vanessa talks about finding true love, even after she'd given up on it.  Action: Find someone that has your back, both if you suffer with a mental illness, or if you're supporting someone with a mental illness. Create a support network to help when times are tough. To get in touch please follow us on instagram at @unhappynotillProduced by Story Ninety-Four in Oxford.