Understanding Parental Accommodation in OCD: Breaking the Cycle
In this insightful episode, we explore the concept of parental accommodation — the well-intentioned ways family members and loved ones may unknowingly reinforce OCD behaviours. Drawing from the research of Professor Eli Liebowitz (Yale) and real-world clinical experience, the hosts unpack how accommodation develops, why it’s so hard to stop, and how families can begin to make meaningful change.From checking, reassuring, or adapting routines “just to keep the peace,” to facing meltdowns, fear, or guilt when setting limits — this conversation goes deep into what it means to hold boundaries with compassion. You’ll hear about ERP therapy, the SPACE model, and practical ways clinicians and parents can work together to reduce accommodation and empower recovery.💬 Key themes:• What “parental accommodation” means and how it maintains OCD• Why well-meaning reassurance can make symptoms stronger• The difference between anxiety disorders and OCD• Supporting children, teens, and adults through distress safely• Helping parents tolerate their own emotions and model resilience• How reducing accommodation can rebuild connection and trust in families• Managing clinician fears around self-harm threats and safety planning🔖 Chapters00:00 Introducing the topic: Parental Accommodation and OCD02:00 What it means to accommodate and why we do it05:00 How everyday reassurance turns into OCD reinforcement08:00 Fear, meltdowns, and why it’s hard for families to stop accommodating11:00 Emotions, modelling, and learning to tolerate discomfort14:00 The SPACE model and clinician guidance17:00 Working with parental fear and client safety21:00 Reducing accommodation step-by-step25:00 Supporting families when clients resist change26:40 Why it works — even if the client isn’t in therapy#OCD #ERP #ParentalAccommodation #MentalHealthPodcast #TherapyTalk #FamilyTherapy #SPACEModel #OCDRecovery #ClinicianSupport #ParentingAndMentalHealth #EmotionalRegulation Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.