The Midlife Burn Book: What People Are Really Saying About MidlifeToday, Stephanie McLaughlin shares the unexpected result of an experiment she brought to Podfest 2026: the Midlife Burn Book. Here’s what happened when real people were invited to reflect on midlife, in their own words, written in a notebook passed hand to hand at Podfest.What was intended to be a playful, analog, nostalgia-tinted way to connect with other podcasters turned into a compelling snapshot of what so many people are carrying beneath the surface as they approach or move through midlife.Stephanie explains the origins of the Burn Book; the prompts inspired by years of conversations on the show; and the sometimes surprisingly honest responses people left behind. In this episode, you’ll hear about:Why Stephanie brought the Midlife Burn Book to Podfest and what she hoped would happenThe 10 core themes that have emerged across nearly four years of The Big Four Oh conversationsHow burnout often comes from obedience, over-functioning, and living by rules we did not chooseThe prompt that resonated most: “What I no longer need to justify”The grief that can accompany shedding identities that once felt essentialWhy exhaustion is often information, not a personal failureWhat it looks like to redefine success from the inside outIn reflecting on the responses in the Burn Book, Stephanie notices a striking pattern: people were far more ready to explore the rupture than the resolution. The episode underscores how universal the midlife transition really is, and how often the questions we avoid are already waiting just beneath the surface. If you enjoyed this episode, please rate, follow, and share The Big Four Oh Podcast. Your support helps these conversations reach more people who are realizing they are not alone as the ground begins to shift beneath their feet.ConnectTheBigFourOh.comTBFO on InstagramTBFO on FacebookGet the Email DigestListen, Rate & SubscribeYouTube PodcastsApple Podcasts SpotifyAmazon PodcastsSponsorThe Big Four Oh Podcast is produced and presented by Savoir Faire Marketing/Communications