<p>What if the answer to doing more good in the world isn&#39;t doing more—but strategically subtracting what drains you? In this thoughtful conversation, host Desiree Stanley sits down with Nell 3D—keynote speaker and leadership advisor known for her &quot;loving dagger of truth&quot;—who helps high-performing, purpose-driven leaders reclaim their energy without abandoning their impact.</p><p>Nell shares her journey from nonprofit work in Palestine to a literal wake-up call: a head-on collision that happened because she was too distracted, doing too much. She walked away physically unharmed but with a life-changing realization—no matter how aligned or purposeful you are, if you&#39;re doing too much, it&#39;s dangerous to yourself and everyone around you.</p><p>She introduces her 3D framework for true success: ME (wellbeing), WE (relationships), and WORLD (impact)—all three must be served simultaneously. Then she explains systematic subtraction: not the four-hour work week or rigid boundaries, but an aspirational, relational approach for people who love their work and want to keep making an impact.</p><p>Nell teaches Stop, Drop, and Roll—stopping to ask &quot;how&#39;s it really going?&quot;, dropping something experimental (like that meeting where you don&#39;t speak), and rolling out the insights by connecting the dots on energy and impact. She challenges hustle culture with systems thinking, shares horse wisdom about starting with the least possible effort, and offers one immediate subtraction: unhelpful thinking (all those post-meeting thoughts wondering if you said too much).</p><p>Whether you&#39;re a helper on the edge of burnout, a leader doing important work who&#39;s overwhelmed, or someone who needs permission to stop piling on, this conversation offers both urgent truth and practical tools for reclaiming your energy.</p><p>Bio:</p><p>Nell is a keynote speaker and leadership advisor who helps high-performing, purpose-driven leaders subtract what drains them so they can lead with clarity, alignment, and impact. Her work draws on two decades across humanitarian leadership, academia, global consulting, and entrepreneurial ventures — from refugee camps to boardrooms, from research labs to ranches.</p><p>She is the creator of Lead in 3D, a framework that helps leaders align ME (wellbeing), WE (team performance), and WORLD (meaningful impact). Known for her “loving dagger of truth,” Nell blends rigorous insight with grounded humanity, helping leaders reclaim their energy, their agency, and the work they actually want to be doing.</p><p>Her insights have been featured in Forbes, and at Fortune 100 companies, industry-leading organizations, world class universities, and high-impact not-for-profit and public sector organizations worldwide.</p><p>Connect with Nell:</p><p><a href="[email protected]" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Email</a></p><p><a href="https://www.nell3d.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Website</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/nelldd/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/nell3d/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">LinkedIn</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Leadin3D⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">YouTube</a></p><p><a href="https://nell3d.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Substack</a></p><p><a href="https://nell3d.substack.com/guestpass⁠" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Substack Guest Pass</a></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://nell3d.kit.com/to-dont-list"><u>https://nell3d.kit.com/to-dont-list</u></a><a href="https://nell3d.kit.com/stopdroproll"><u>https://nell3d.kit.com/stopdroproll</u></a></p><p>Books:</p><p>Moral Injuries When Good Conscience Suffers in a World of Hurt by Michael Valdovinos - <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/116550/9780063419872" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Bookshop.org</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4vdjlAw"><u>https://amzn.to/4vdjlAw</u></a></p><p>Uncompete Rejecting Competition to Unlock Success by Ruchika T. Malhotra - <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/116550/9780593832158" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Bookshop.org</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/4tmaxGI"><u>https://amzn.to/4tmaxGI</u></a></p><p>Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder by Nassim Nicholas Taleb - <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/116550/9780812979688" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">Bookshop.org</a></p><p><a href="https://amzn.to/47DS6Fm"><u>https://amzn.to/47DS6Fm</u></a></p><p>Podcasts:</p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/on-being-with-krista-tippett/id150892556" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">On Being with Krista Tippett</a></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-garrison-institute-presents-the-common-good/id1829739071" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer nofollow">The Garrison Institute</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>