E120 - 4 Signs You’re Going To Stay Unhappy (No Matter What) | Dr K
DEC 10, 2025123 MIN
E120 - 4 Signs You’re Going To Stay Unhappy (No Matter What) | Dr K
DEC 10, 2025123 MIN
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<p>» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship and cognitive optimisation<br>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/</a><br>Website: <a href="https://hackyou.media/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://hackyou.media/ </a></p><p><br></p><p>After building a massive mental health platform and hitting a midlife crisis at the peak of success, Dr K proves that doing hard things and feeling accomplished isn’t the same as knowing what you want from life.</p><p><br></p><p>You'll hear why content creation is an endless hamster wheel you can't escape, how he left millions on the table to keep things affordable, and what happens when you wake up one day, realising you've built someone else's version of success. We discuss knowing when enough is enough and how internal conflict about money and purpose affects even the people helping others figure out their lives.<br></p><p>00:00 Introduction<br>03:34 The emotional toll of constant content creation<br>06:14 Why progress feels good but rarely leads to contentment<br>11:24 How living in Dubai affects self-image and motivation<br>13:28 Body image, self-esteem and why Mike doesn’t spiral<br>18:38 Why self-love feels off-limits for certain men<br>22:46 Regret, efficiency, and the pressure of lost time<br>27:13 How subtle justifications mask deeper dissatisfaction<br>34:35 The fear of wasting potential and staying stuck<br>36:08 Why peak hedonism didn’t bring happiness<br>40:00 What peace really feels like for high achievers<br>44:05 Exploring joy in the unknown vs controlled luxury<br>49:54 The quality of company vs the cost of experience<br>50:57 The signs of burnout and recognising overwork early<br>57:04 Why men struggle to understand their own feelings<br>01:01:29 Learning how to name emotions to stop being ruled by them<br>01:07:42 The fear of being seen and how it shapes identity<br>01:13:42 Relationships, emotional safety, and being misunderstood<br>01:24:57 Why men fear losing their edge and becoming “the loser” again<br>01:35:38 Building self-awareness and making space to feel things<br>01:48:46 How meditation helps process thoughts and reduce noise<br>01:53:33 Dr. K’s own midlife crisis and redefining success</p><p><br></p><p>» Escape the 9-5 and build your dream life: <a href="https://www.digitalplaybook.net/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.digitalplaybook.net/</a><br>» Transform your physique: <a href="https://www.thrstapp.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.thrstapp.com/</a><br>» My clothing brand, THRST: <a href="https://thrstofficial.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://thrstofficial.com</a><br>» Custom Bioniq supplements: <a href="https://www.bioniq.com/mikethurston" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.bioniq.com/mikethurston</a><br>• 40% off your first month of Bioniq GO<br>• 20% off your first month of Bioniq PRO</p><p><br></p><p>» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episode:<br><a href="https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/</a></p><p>» Join Whoop and get your first month for free:<br><a href="https://join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst</a></p><p><br></p><p>» Follow Dr K<br>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg/</a><br>Podcast: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6VaJwyS2KXxiXqR77jqzmP" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://open.spotify.com/show/6VaJwyS2KXxiXqR77jqzmP</a><br>X: <a href="https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerG" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://twitter.com/HealthyGamerG</a><br>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gg" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.tiktok.com/@healthygamer.gg</a></p>