S4 - EP19 - He Was Planning Our Wedding: Josie Jakub on Suicide Loss, Love and Life After Olivier
JUN 8, 202675 MIN
S4 - EP19 - He Was Planning Our Wedding: Josie Jakub on Suicide Loss, Love and Life After Olivier
JUN 8, 202675 MIN
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<p>In this episode of Widowed AF, Rosie is joined by Josie Jakub, CEO of Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SOBS).</p><p>Josie shares the story of her fiancé Olivier, a kind, spiritual French lorry driver who was loved by everyone around him. Together they were building a life, planning their wedding and creating a future in rural France. Then, just weeks before they were due to marry, Olivier died by suicide.</p><p>Josie talks openly about the mental health struggles that Olivier had hidden for years, the shocking way she received the news of his death, and the impossible task of making sense of a loss that seemed to come out of nowhere.</p><p>She also shares one of the most extraordinary stories ever told on Widowed AF: her attempt to marry Olivier after his death through a little-known French law that allows posthumous marriage with presidential approval. What followed was a four-year journey involving handwritten letters, evidence of their love story and a dossier that eventually reached the desk of President Emmanuel Macron.</p><p>Rosie and Josie discuss suicide bereavement, stigma, mental illness, survivor guilt, finding community through SOBS and the life-changing power of peer support.</p><p>This is a conversation about grief, love, resilience and what happens when the future you planned disappears overnight.</p>