<description>&lt;p data-start="842" data-end="1016"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;We glorify finishing, the neat endings, the polished goodbyes, the stories that wrap up with a bow.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size: 14pt;"&gt;But most endings aren't neat. They're quiet, messy, or gut-wrenching.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p data-start="1018" data-end="1260"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;This episode is for the part of you that &lt;em data-start="1059" data-end="1066"&gt;knows&lt;/em&gt; something's done, but keeps hoping you can fix it, revive it, or make it pretty. Whether it's a job, a friendship, a creative project, or a whole identity, there's a moment when you realise:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;"If it costs me peace, it's already too expensive."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p data-start="1319" data-end="1336"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;In this episode I discuss: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul data-start="1337" data-end="1633"&gt; &lt;li style="font-size: 14pt;" data-start="1337" data-end="1388"&gt; &lt;p data-start="1339" data-end="1388"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;The myth of the tidy ending (and why we chase it).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li style="font-size: 14pt;" data-start="1389" data-end="1471"&gt; &lt;p data-start="1391" data-end="1471"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;The moment you know you're done, not when it's over, but when it's draining you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li style="font-size: 14pt;" data-start="1472" data-end="1522"&gt; &lt;p data-start="1474" data-end="1522"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;How to hold the grief tangled up with the relief.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li style="font-size: 14pt;" data-start="1523" data-end="1581"&gt; &lt;p data-start="1525" data-end="1581"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Why letting go is the most honest kind of self-respect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p data-start="1635" data-end="1757"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;You'll leave this one feeling lighter and maybe ready to finally call DONE on something that's been weighing you down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p data-start="1635" data-end="1757"&gt;&lt;span style= "font-size: 14pt;"&gt;If this hits, join me live for my next workshop &lt;strong data-start="2071" data-end="2095"&gt;"Done Is a Decision"&lt;/strong&gt; inside &lt;a href= "https://www.skool.com/the-done-era/about"&gt;The Done Era&lt;/a&gt; where we talk about how to spot when something's run its course and how to let it go without guilt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

The Nope Coach

Suzanne Culberg

Done is a decision

NOV 10, 202516 MIN
The Nope Coach

Done is a decision

NOV 10, 202516 MIN

Description

We glorify finishing, the neat endings, the polished goodbyes, the stories that wrap up with a bow. But most endings aren't neat. They're quiet, messy, or gut-wrenching.

This episode is for the part of you that knows something's done, but keeps hoping you can fix it, revive it, or make it pretty. Whether it's a job, a friendship, a creative project, or a whole identity, there's a moment when you realise: "If it costs me peace, it's already too expensive."

In this episode I discuss:

  • The myth of the tidy ending (and why we chase it).

  • The moment you know you're done, not when it's over, but when it's draining you.

  • How to hold the grief tangled up with the relief.

  • Why letting go is the most honest kind of self-respect.

You'll leave this one feeling lighter and maybe ready to finally call DONE on something that's been weighing you down.

If this hits, join me live for my next workshop "Done Is a Decision" inside The Done Era where we talk about how to spot when something's run its course and how to let it go without guilt.