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language isn't even on the list?</p> <p data-start="610" data-end="666">In this episode of <em data-start="687" data-end="706">Superlatively Yes</em>, Tanya and Jen revisit the classic five love languages from <span class="whitespace-normal">The Five Love Languages</span> by <span class="whitespace-normal">Gary Chapman</span>—and then lovingly (and hilariously) expand the list to include the ones that actually define their lives.</p> <p data-start="953" data-end="1165">From <strong data-start="958" data-end="999">"not having to explain the backstory"</strong> to <strong data-start="1003" data-end="1056">"someone bringing you a Diet Coke without asking"</strong>, this episode explores the deeply relatable—and often unspoken—ways we give and receive love as Gen X women.</p> <p data-start="1167" data-end="1396">They reflect on how love languages helped a generation finally feel seen, why personality tests exploded when they did, and how understanding yourself can lead to stronger relationships, less friction, and a whole lot more grace.</p> <p data-start="1398" data-end="1410">You'll hear:</p> <p>A quick breakdown of the original five love languages</p> <p>Why Gen X didn't grow up talking about emotional needs</p> <p>How love languages evolve over time</p> <p>The difference between giving love intentionally vs. authentically</p> <p>Tanya & Jen's <em data-start="1655" data-end= "1667">unofficial</em> love languages (you will absolutely relate)</p> <p>Why "acts of peace" might be the most underrated love language</p> <p>Why Diet Coke might deserve its own category</p> <p data-start="1840" data-end="1979">Plus, a fan-favorite return of <strong data-start="1871" data-end="1885">Cute & Fun</strong>, featuring beauty finds, home gadgets, and a few things you didn't know you needed until now.</p> <p data-start="1981" data-end="2100">If you've ever felt complicated, layered, or just a little high-maintenance (in the best way), this episode is for you.</p> <p 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The Superlatively Yes Podcast
Tanya Smith and Jennifer McCroddan
Acts of Peace, Diet Coke & Other Unofficial Love Languages
MAY 1, 202663 MIN
Acts of Peace, Diet Coke & Other Unofficial Love Languages
MAY 1, 202663 MIN
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*]:pointer-events-auto [content-visibility:auto] supports-[content-visibility:auto]:[contain-intrinsic-size:auto_100lvh] R6Vx5W_threadScrollVars scroll-mb-[calc(var(--scroll-root-safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)+var(--thread-response-height))] scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:b8fa94d1-9d8d-4cd7-a18e-98b2ea015074-0" data-testid= "conversation-turn-2" data-scroll-anchor="false" data-turn= "assistant"> What if your real love language isn't even on the list? In this episode of Superlatively Yes, Tanya and Jen revisit the classic five love languages from The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman—and then lovingly (and hilariously) expand the list to include the ones that actually define their lives. From "not having to explain the backstory" to "someone bringing you a Diet Coke without asking", this episode explores the deeply relatable—and often unspoken—ways we give and receive love as Gen X women. They reflect on how love languages helped a generation finally feel seen, why personality tests exploded when they did, and how understanding yourself can lead to stronger relationships, less friction, and a whole lot more grace. You'll hear: A quick breakdown of the original five love languages Why Gen X didn't grow up talking about emotional needs How love languages evolve over time The difference between giving love intentionally vs. authentically Tanya & Jen's unofficial love languages (you will absolutely relate) Why "acts of peace" might be the most underrated love language Why Diet Coke might deserve its own category Plus, a fan-favorite return of Cute & Fun, featuring beauty finds, home gadgets, and a few things you didn't know you needed until now. If you've ever felt complicated, layered, or just a little high-maintenance (in the best way), this episode is for you. Products we Mentioned in this Episode: Fenty Beauty Lip Gloss Blaz'd Donut Drybar Final Call Frizz and Static Control Mist BondiBoost Everlast Airstyler System BondiBoost Anti-thinning Shampoo and Conditioner Kylie Jenner Matte Lip Kit in Kylie Naturalizer Brandy Sandal | Womens Sandals SaltAir Body Products Find Us On the World Wide Web: Patreon.com/SuperYes Superlatively Yes website Superlatively Yes on Patreon Superlatively Yes Instagram Page Superlatively Yes Facebook Pag Tanya's Instagram Tanya's Facebook Jen's Coaching Instagram: reframe your world