Dear boss babe.. if you’ve ever asked yourself “Why do I keep setting goals and somehow never fully hitting them?” this episode is for you. And let me say this upfront: it’s not because you’re lazy, undisciplined, or not wanting it badly enough. The real issue is that most of the goals you’ve been setting were never designed to fit inside your real life — especially if you’re a high achiever. In this episode, I’m giving you a real pep talk — the kind I wish someone gave me sooner. I’m sharing what I learned after a year of big wins, big ambition, and a whole lot of emotional whiplash. On the outside, things looked great. Behind the scenes, I was stuck in a cycle of pushing hard, crashing, recovering, and starting over again. I talk about how hustle culture and surface-level manifestation keep high achievers stuck in burnout loops — and why vision boards can start to feel heavy instead of inspiring. When your goals don’t honor your energy, your schedule, or your current season of life, they slowly turn into something you avoid… even when you still want them. This episode is about rebuilding your 2026 goals in a way that supports your nervous system, protects your self care, and creates momentum that actually lasts. You don’t need to become a different version of yourself to succeed — you need a better structure. Why you’re not failing — you’re working inside a broken goal system How hustle culture trains high achievers to sprint and crash Why manifestation without structure leads to burnout and guilt How vision boards can disconnect you from your real life The hidden cost of constantly starting and stopping (time, money, momentum) How to set 2026 goals that are achievable, not just impressive Why clarity creates more progress than pressure ever will You don’t need more discipline — you need goals that fit your real life Self care isn’t something you earn after success, it’s what sustains it High achievers don’t struggle with dreaming — we struggle with sustainable systems A calm, grounded plan will take you further than hustle ever will Your 2026 vision board works best when it sits on top of real structure I want you to pick one goal you’ve been avoiding and ask yourself: Does this fit into my real, current life — or just my fantasy vision board life? What would make this goal achievable instead of impressive? What would it look like to give this goal a simple weekly plan? That’s where everything starts to change — not with more pressure, but with more clarity. ✨ If this episode resonated, make sure you listen to this week’s full episode Episode 134 where I break down how to set goals you’ll actually achieve in 2026 and beyond, and how to turn your vision board into something that works in real life. 💬 Share this episode with a fellow high achiever who’s been quietly blaming herself — we don’t gatekeep clarity over here. ⭐ And if you found this helpful, please leave a 5-star rating and review. It’s the best way to support the show and help more women step out of hustle culture and into sustainable success. I’m rooting for you — always. With love,Ericka Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices