<p>What if the goal is not to erase jealousy, but to stop letting it drive the car? Dr. Marie Thouin joins April and Scott to define compersion in clear, grounded terms, and to explain why it can show up as an emotion, an attitude, or even simple supportive neutrality. They talk about the spectrum from “I can handle this” to genuine joy, the “second arrow” of self-inflicted suffering, and the conditions that make compersion more likely: security in self, security in the relationship, supportive community, and more. </p><p>The episode also explores how autonomy and trust intersect with boundaries, when “training wheels” help, and how to tell the difference between growth discomfort and self-abandonment.</p><p></p><p>Dr Marie Thouin Websites:</p><p>https://mariethouin.com/</p><p>https://www.whatiscompersion.com/</p><p></p><p>Naughty Gym Website:</p><p>www.NaughtyGym.com</p><p></p><p>Our Upcoming Events:</p><p>1. Wild Love Theory Retreat -- https://www.naughtygym.com/wild-love-theory-retreat</p><p>2. Barcelona Adventure Trip -- https://www.naughtygym.com/barcelona-2026</p><p>3. El Salvador Retreat -- https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-el-salvador</p>