<p>In this episode of the Owaken Podcast, Hella and Lukis explore how filtering and censoring ourselves comes less from others’ judgment and more from self-judgment, and how this blocks life force, passion, creativity, and authentic connection.</p><p><br></p><p>They discuss fear of rejection and belonging, how childhood conditioning creates an “autopilot personality,” and why being visible, especially online, brings inevitable criticism that doesn’t need to be taken personally.</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation emphasizes becoming a safe space for yourself through self-love, interrupting negative self-talk, cultivating core desired feelings internally, and taking action by “trying on” confident authenticity to regulate the nervous system and using authenticity and service to attract the right community.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Why We Self-Censor</p><p>01:05 Intentions and Inner Safety</p><p>01:51 Fear of Judgment Loop</p><p>04:42 Social Media and Exposure</p><p>07:02 You Are Not for Everyone</p><p>08:30 Childhood Conditioning and Roles</p><p>10:43 Self-Love Over Approval</p><p>12:01 Masks Create Disconnection</p><p>14:50 Find Your Niche and Play</p><p>17:25 Building Owaken Without Examples</p><p>19:34 Turn Inward, Trust Intuition</p><p>21:08 Service, Purpose, and Worthiness</p><p>24:03 Core Desired Feelings Practice</p><p>25:52 Coach Yourself Up</p><p>26:23 Interrupt Negative Self-Talk</p><p>27:26 Try On Authentic Action</p><p>29:13 Nervous System Exposure</p><p>30:14 Spiritual Protection Reframe</p><p>31:38 Find Your Best Environment</p><p>35:09 Authenticity Creates Opportunities</p><p>37:29 Aura and Regulation</p><p>41:13 Stars and Inner Light</p><p>42:43 Evolving Authentic Self</p><p>43:24 Caring Less What Others Think</p><p>44:47 Handling Judgment and Hate</p><p>46:32 Closing Reflections</p><p><br></p><p>Follow for more insights and inspiration:</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Owaken:</p><p>/ owakenbreathwork</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Hella Omega:</p><p>/ hellaomega</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Lukis Mac:</p><p>/ lukismac</p><p><br></p><p>Learn more about Owaken Breathwork:</p><p>Owaken.com</p>

The Owaken Podcast

The Owaken Podcast

Self-Judgment Is Keeping You Small & Killing Your Dreams

MAY 28, 202646 MIN
The Owaken Podcast

Self-Judgment Is Keeping You Small & Killing Your Dreams

MAY 28, 202646 MIN

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<p>In this episode of the Owaken Podcast, Hella and Lukis explore how filtering and censoring ourselves comes less from others’ judgment and more from self-judgment, and how this blocks life force, passion, creativity, and authentic connection.</p><p><br></p><p>They discuss fear of rejection and belonging, how childhood conditioning creates an “autopilot personality,” and why being visible, especially online, brings inevitable criticism that doesn’t need to be taken personally.</p><p><br></p><p>The conversation emphasizes becoming a safe space for yourself through self-love, interrupting negative self-talk, cultivating core desired feelings internally, and taking action by “trying on” confident authenticity to regulate the nervous system and using authenticity and service to attract the right community.</p><p><br></p><p>00:00 Why We Self-Censor</p><p>01:05 Intentions and Inner Safety</p><p>01:51 Fear of Judgment Loop</p><p>04:42 Social Media and Exposure</p><p>07:02 You Are Not for Everyone</p><p>08:30 Childhood Conditioning and Roles</p><p>10:43 Self-Love Over Approval</p><p>12:01 Masks Create Disconnection</p><p>14:50 Find Your Niche and Play</p><p>17:25 Building Owaken Without Examples</p><p>19:34 Turn Inward, Trust Intuition</p><p>21:08 Service, Purpose, and Worthiness</p><p>24:03 Core Desired Feelings Practice</p><p>25:52 Coach Yourself Up</p><p>26:23 Interrupt Negative Self-Talk</p><p>27:26 Try On Authentic Action</p><p>29:13 Nervous System Exposure</p><p>30:14 Spiritual Protection Reframe</p><p>31:38 Find Your Best Environment</p><p>35:09 Authenticity Creates Opportunities</p><p>37:29 Aura and Regulation</p><p>41:13 Stars and Inner Light</p><p>42:43 Evolving Authentic Self</p><p>43:24 Caring Less What Others Think</p><p>44:47 Handling Judgment and Hate</p><p>46:32 Closing Reflections</p><p><br></p><p>Follow for more insights and inspiration:</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Owaken:</p><p>/ owakenbreathwork</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Hella Omega:</p><p>/ hellaomega</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Lukis Mac:</p><p>/ lukismac</p><p><br></p><p>Learn more about Owaken Breathwork:</p><p>Owaken.com</p>