The Lesbian Peep Show

This week, I’m talking about the Cornell 7 allegations and what it feels like to watch the response as a woman with your own history. I also get into the backlash around a lesbian bar’s proposed mask optional night, King Princess, and the way we turn every disagreement into a public verdict. After a rough few weeks in my own comments, I’m asking how much of the internet we really need to take in. xo You can find Erin @iamerinbrownThe Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast CHEEX OFFER LINK u...

Women are taught extensively about how to be desired and almost nothing about discovering what or whom we desire. I’m talking about the years I spent trying to enjoy what was wanted from me, fighting to have my no respected and performing sex from a creative brief built around someone else’s pleasure. And the revolutionary question I finally learned to ask: What do I want to say yes to? Content note: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault, coercion and trauma. This episode is the ...

Lesbian porn star Ophelia Fay joins me to talk about what lesbian porn actually looks like when the women making it are queer, why authenticity and pleasure aren’t necessarily at odds with performance, and what it means to build a career without compromising her lesbian identity. We get into everything from scissoring and chemistry with co-stars to sex work, the male gaze, and why “lesbian porn is made for men” is a much more complicated claim than people make it out to be. Plus, Ophelia brea...

Tiffany Watts is back on The Lesbian Peep Show to talk about building SapphicCon, a new creative festival centering sapphic culture, art, community, and connection. We get into why queer life needs spaces beyond the internet, the often-invisible history of sapphic people in ballroom, and what happens when women create spaces specifically for themselves. Plus: the Sapphic Ball, Original Sin, and why sometimes you have to stop asking whether everyone is happy with what you're building. You can ...

Erin talks with personal trainer and certified gay person on the internet Kade Kasper about butchness, gender, masculinity, and figuring out who you want to be when the examples you’ve been handed don’t quite fit. They get into building a masculinity that protects rather than possesses, what it means to belong to lesbian culture, and why identity gets a whole lot easier when we stop trying to turn it into a set of rules. Plus: gym books, carabiners, gender calculus, and the formation of the B...