In this spicy segment, licensed sex therapist Marissa Nelson breaks down what happens when partners have very different sexual desires including kinks, fantasies, and preferences most people are too afraid to admit out loud. From foot fetishes to roleplay to exploring the “awkward intimacy” necessary for real connection, Marissa explains why desire evolves over time and how couples can bridge the gap without shame.

She also shares practical scripts for talking about what you want in bed, how to give feedback without hurting your partner, what to do when a kink feels like a dealbreaker, and why some couples open their relationships to fulfill specific needs.

If you’ve ever wondered how to have honest conversations about kink, pleasure, and discomfort — this is your guide.

You’ll learn:

• Why kinks exist and how they evolve
• How to talk about sexual preferences without shame
• What to do when your partner isn’t into what you’re into
• How awkward intimacy builds deeper desire
• Why sex is an ongoing process, not a performance
• Healthy ways to negotiate mismatch or explore new things

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