Gloria Steinem and Dolly Parton: Two Very Different Feminists, Their Legacy and the Work Before Us
A special episode to mark the deaths of two feminist icons three weeks apart: Dolly Parton on 25 August, aged 80, and Gloria Steinem on 2 September, aged 92. One the soundtrack of a generation, the other the face of a movement. Both, in their way, women who gave the money back. Kavita knew Gloria, most recently over dinner at her townhouse on the Lower East Side just before Christmas. Sanam and Kavita take this opportunity in remembering these two icons to asses where feminism is at the it's role to play in this time of great global change. In all the tributes Kavita sees something uncomfortable about how we grieve now: that the wall of photographs of ourselves with the famous dead has become as much about us as about them, and she is trying consciously not to do it. She also notices who was largely missing from the tributes, and what that absence says about whose feminism got told as the story. Kavita teaching a course this autumn called Feminism Remains Foreign, and the title works in two directions. Foreign to the West, which still cannot see feminism outside its own frame: abortion is still illegal in Germany, women could not hold their own bank accounts in parts of Switzerland within living memory. And foreign in the other sense, the way women's organising everywhere else gets dismissed as a Western import the moment it asks for anything. Sanam grew up with the other version. In 1970s Iran, public sector workers had equal pay and abortion was legal, and the word feminism was barely needed. When she looks at the drafting of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the headline says Eleanor Roosevelt. Read below the headline and it was Latin American, Indian, Pakistani and Arab women who insisted the word "women" appear at all. The heart of the conversation is culture. Both hosts argue against ceding it. Sanam on the lawyers who told her culture was the enemy and only law could deliver rights, and why that is exactly the logic that lost Roe. Kavita on Sakena Yacoobi, who asked an imam's wife and daughter to come and teach what the Quran says about women's dignity, and on Leymah Gbowee beginning to untie her turban in Ghana. Sanam on the church elders in Sierra Leone who bared themselves to the RUF, and on the women's societies in Cameroon that the British never thought to dismantle because they only ever looked at the men's. They disagree with Gloria too, openly, on sex work. And they end on bodies: on Gloria who never stopped feeling like the too-tall girl from the Midwest, and Dolly who was entirely, joyfully at home in hers. Standing on the shoulders of giants, Sanam says, and often they are invisible giants. As June Jordan put it, we are the ones we have been waiting for. Chapters 00:00 Back after the summer 00:07 Two feminist icons gone: Dolly Parton and Gloria Steinem 01:06 Dinner at Gloria's townhouse on the Lower East Side 01:55 The Imagination Library and what giving back used to mean 02:25 The Ms. Foundation and the invention of feminist philanthropy 03:43 Iran in the 1970s: equal pay, legal abortion, and no need for the word 05:21 Performative grief and everybody's photograph with Gloria 06:20 Feminism Remains Foreign: the course Kavita teaches this autumn 07:34 Abortion still illegal in Germany, bank accounts in Switzerland 07:51 Who actually wrote women into the Universal Declaration of Human Rights 09:30 The Combahee River Collective and a decolonial feminism 10:50 "We empowered them": Hillary Clinton, Afghan women and being matronised 12:07 What if Chinese, Iranian and Indian women funded American feminism 13:27 When women's peace work is dismissed as a Western import 14:56 Do not cede culture: the mistake behind losing Roe 15:17 Radical women embracing tradition: Sakena Yacoobi and the imam's daughter 17:15 Leymah Gbowee, Sierra Leone, and the power of the curse 18:35 The women's societies in Cameroon the British never thought to destroy 19:09 Who was missing from the tributes to Gloria 21:02 Many candles, not one torch 22:28 Where Kavita disagreed with Gloria: sex work as work 25:47 Losing Gloria in the age of Roe's reversal and the trad wife 27:32 The fight to be recognised as human at all 30:12 A native feminist vision of sovereignty rooted in care 32:57 Would Dolly and Gloria have got on? 33:32 Bodies, shame, and Dolly's great gift 35:39 Standing on the shoulders of invisible giants 36:09 Summer reading, and what is coming in Season 4 Mentioned in this episode Sanam founded the International Civil Society Action Network, which is twenty years old this year. Kavita is Senior Strategic Advisor to the International Planned Parenthood Federation, and led the Global Fund for Women for fourteen years. Gloria Steinem was a founding mother of the Ms. Foundation for Women, the first women's fund, which inspired others including the Dutch fund Mama Cash. Kavita's reading for her course includes the Combahee River Collective Statement of 1977. The story of the imam's wife and daughter comes from Kavita's TED talk, Radical Women, Embracing Tradition Sanam's summer reading was The True True Story of Raja the Gullible (and His Mother) by Rabih Alameddine. Enjoyed this episode? Follow If You Were In Charge wherever you listen and leave a rating to help more people find the show. Get in touch and stay connected: Email ICAN: [email protected] Sign up to the ICAN newsletter: https://icanpeacework.org/2025/03/sign-up-to-icans-newsletter/ More from us: adapodcasts.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices