<p>What happens when we strip down the layers of who we are pretending to be, and people instead see us for the messy, chaotic, mistake-making humans that we are?</p><p> </p><p>If your nervous system just took a nose dive thinking about that- then you just might be someone who struggles with perfectionism. Hi. You're in good company here.</p><p> </p><p>In today's episode, we're having a deep discussion on the internal war of perfectionism, and how this is deeply intertwined with both people pleasing AND procrastination.</p><p> </p><p>We're talking about the consequences of constantly trying to be perfect, how this impacts every area of our life, and ultimately- how it can lead us to living a life completely out of alignment from who we truly are and what we truly want.</p><p> </p><p>I'm getting real, raw and honest about the way perfectionism has ‘ruled’ my life up until now- and how it is still impacting me today (even though this is embarrassing for me to admit out loud). </p><p> </p><p>Best part? We're also going to discuss how we stop falling into this trap, and how we can learn to embrace our messy and chaotic selves instead.</p><p> </p><p>Let's dive in.</p><p></p><p>_____________________</p><p></p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://goregulateyourself.substack.com/" target="_blank">* JOIN REG BABES AFTER DARK HERE *</a></p><p>(just $50 for one year when you sign up by April 30th!)</p><p></p><p>_____________________</p><p></p><p><b>AFFILIATE LINKS:</b></p><p> <br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://flykakao.ca/?ref=brianne" target="_blank"><b>Fly Kakao</b></a>- The best cacao you've ever tasted in your life. My favourite is the signature blend! Use link for 10% off your first order.</p><p><br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://mindmend.refr.cc/mind-mend-referrals/u/brianner?s=sp&amp;t=cp" target="_blank"><b>Mind Mend</b></a>- My go-to shop for all things magic mushrooms. I love the 5-blend bundle as it comes with a trial of all the different micro-dosing capsules. Use the link for $20 off a future order.</p><p> </p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.wildoakboutique.com/ITSBRIANNEROBERGE" target="_blank"><b>Wild Oak Boutique</b></a>- If you've been on the hunt for the PERFECT jeans, look no further. Recently I've fallen in love with their line, and I am currently purchasing one of every style! Use this link for 10% off your order!</p><p></p><p>_____________________</p><p><br /><b>EXTRAS + SOCIALS</b></p><p><br />Enjoyed this episode + want to send some love? <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://buymeacoffee.com/itsbrianneroberge" target="_blank"><b>SEE HERE</b></a><br />For more about Brianne, her work and content <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://wwwbrianneroberge.com/" target="_blank"><b>SEE HERE</b></a></p><p> <br />Connect on Instagram:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/itsbrianneroberge" target="_blank"><b>Brianne Roberge</b></a></p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/goregulateyourself" target="_blank"><b>Go Regulate Yourself</b></a></p><p><br />Connect on Facebook:<br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/itsbrianneroberge" target="_blank"><b>Brianne Roberge</b></a><br /><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/goregulateyourself/" target="_blank"><b>Go Regulate Yourself</b></a></p>