Rigour & Flow with Aiwan and Tamanda

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Sex Work Through Women’s Eyes

It’s International Women’s Month. So what better time to ask: what would society look like if women were truly prioritised? In this week’s episode of Rigour & Flow, we explore the idea of matriarchy - not as a fantasy of female domination, but as a thought experiment about power, care and social priorities. We begin with the plot of a recent series we watched: ‘The Power’. Teenage girls develop the ability to emit electric shocks. “Everything is getting zapped.” Overnight, hierarchies destabilise. Power shifts. Fear shifts. But is that a matriarchy? Or simply patriarchy reversed? Very quickly, we realise the term itself needs unpacking. Matriarchal. Matrilineal. Matrifocal. Gynarchy. Some anthropologists argue that matriarchies have never existed in any strict sense. While others point to examples across the globe. The conversation moves between theory and lived experience. Women-only spaces. Academic retreats. AiAi Studios as a women-led business. We ask what might change if women were truly prioritised. If sanitary care were not taxed. If maternal mortality were treated as urgent. If research into fibroids and endometriosis were as widely understood as space exploration. At one point, we name it exactly as we see it: we have been bamboozled by patriarchy. If power has always looked like domination, can we even imagine a world organised differently? In response, we examine communities often labelled matriarchal, such as the Umoja village in Kenya. We then consider female politicians in the UK, and ask whether representation alone transforms structures. Underneath the debate lurks a blunt question. Is the fear of matriarchy really fear of women ruling, or fear of men no longer being centred? This episode interrogates how power is defined, who is prioritised, and whether we are capable of imagining structural change without defaulting to ineffective reversal. 🎙️ In this episode:Patriarchy flipped or structural shift: Why female domination is not the same as systemic transformationMatriarchy, matrilineal, matrifocal: Untangling definitions often collapsed into one wordCentred vs accommodated: What changes when women are prioritised rather than simply includedThe knowledge gap exposed: Fibroids and maternal mortality versus the Hubble telescope and dark matterWomen-only spaces under the microscope: Church fellowships, academic retreats and the experience of being centredRepresentation without restructuring: Why female Prime Ministers do not automatically dismantle patriarchyUmoja and other women-led communities: Survival, refuge and the limits of the “matriarchy” labelThe imagination gap: Whether discomfort with matriarchy is really discomfort with decentring men 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts
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