<p>From&nbsp;sex work in Georgian England to modern debates on marriage, consent and criminalisation, this episode of Rigour &amp; Flow focuses on women’s perspectives on power, survival and who gets to define respectability.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>We start by discussing the historical drama <em>Harlots</em>, a series set in 18th-century London that centres the lives of women working in the sex trade. Written by women, the show offers a refreshing lens on the world’s “oldest profession.” Instead of caricatures or moral judgement, we see the economic realities, survival strategies and brutal power dynamics shaping women’s lives.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Our behind-the-scenes conversation evolves to consider what happens when women control the narrative. When the story is told from a woman’s experience, the hypocrisy of power becomes harder to ignore. In this case, the series depicts men not as romantic heroes but as unrefined figures of entitlement and violence.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From there, we move beyond the show. Exploring the politics of sex work today, the consequences of criminalising sex work, and some unconsidered parallels between sex work and marriage as historical economic transactions. religion, law and survival as we draw attention to the structures and hierarchies societies build around sex and sex work.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Finally, the episode then turns personal. As Aiwan and Tamanda reflect on their own perspectives on sex work, the sociology behind it and why an 18th-century dominatrix in <em>Harlots</em> - who flips the power dynamic entirely - represents a radically different form of agency for women.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Underneath the humour and cultural critique runs the question: What <em>exactly</em> is sex work and what does it tell us about women’s lives today?</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>🎙️<strong> In this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Women holding the pen: Why&nbsp;<em>Harlots</em>&nbsp;tells a truer story of women’s lives</li><li>No heroes here: What women-centred storytelling exposes about male power and hypocrisy</li><li>Survival for sale: Sex work, status and the brutal economics of being a woman in Georgian England</li><li>When payment becomes permission: Consent, coercion and the fiction of contractual sex</li><li>Holy performance: Religion, shame and Florence’s use of faith as shield and strategy</li><li>Marriage as transaction: Why the line between wifehood and sex work is not as neat as we pretend</li><li>Murky power: Secrets, brothels and the influence women hold inside patriarchal systems</li><li>Whips, wit and reversal: Nancy Birch and the seductive idea of women turning power back on men</li></ul><p>&nbsp;</p><p>🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts
</p><p>🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube: ​​https://youtu.be/ivPBaWFO4sE</p><p>🔁 Share with someone interested in culture, feminism and social power</p><p><strong>Please rate, review and subscribe for weekly episodes.</strong></p><p>Connect with us on:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://uk.linkedin.com/company/rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="www.aiaistudios.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">AiAi Studios</a></li><li><a href="www.rootsandrigour.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Roots &amp; Rigour</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><em>This is an </em><a href="https://open.acast.com/networks/67d57addaaba807fb7eb365a/shows/67d57d23b3ef7ea352b50da3/www.aiaistudios.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>AiAi Studios</em></a><em> Production</em></p><p><em>©AiAi Studios 2025</em></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

Rigour & Flow with Aiwan and Tamanda

Rigour & Flow with Aiwan and Tamanda

Is Marriage Sex Work? | Power, Morality & the Myth of Respectability

MAR 17, 202659 MIN
Rigour & Flow with Aiwan and Tamanda

Is Marriage Sex Work? | Power, Morality & the Myth of Respectability

MAR 17, 202659 MIN

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<p>From&nbsp;sex work in Georgian England to modern debates on marriage, consent and criminalisation, this episode of Rigour &amp; Flow focuses on women’s perspectives on power, survival and who gets to define respectability.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>We start by discussing the historical drama <em>Harlots</em>, a series set in 18th-century London that centres the lives of women working in the sex trade. Written by women, the show offers a refreshing lens on the world’s “oldest profession.” Instead of caricatures or moral judgement, we see the economic realities, survival strategies and brutal power dynamics shaping women’s lives.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Our behind-the-scenes conversation evolves to consider what happens when women control the narrative. When the story is told from a woman’s experience, the hypocrisy of power becomes harder to ignore. In this case, the series depicts men not as romantic heroes but as unrefined figures of entitlement and violence.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>From there, we move beyond the show. Exploring the politics of sex work today, the consequences of criminalising sex work, and some unconsidered parallels between sex work and marriage as historical economic transactions. religion, law and survival as we draw attention to the structures and hierarchies societies build around sex and sex work.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Finally, the episode then turns personal. As Aiwan and Tamanda reflect on their own perspectives on sex work, the sociology behind it and why an 18th-century dominatrix in <em>Harlots</em> - who flips the power dynamic entirely - represents a radically different form of agency for women.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Underneath the humour and cultural critique runs the question: What <em>exactly</em> is sex work and what does it tell us about women’s lives today?</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>🎙️<strong> In this episode:</strong></p><ul><li>Women holding the pen: Why&nbsp;<em>Harlots</em>&nbsp;tells a truer story of women’s lives</li><li>No heroes here: What women-centred storytelling exposes about male power and hypocrisy</li><li>Survival for sale: Sex work, status and the brutal economics of being a woman in Georgian England</li><li>When payment becomes permission: Consent, coercion and the fiction of contractual sex</li><li>Holy performance: Religion, shame and Florence’s use of faith as shield and strategy</li><li>Marriage as transaction: Why the line between wifehood and sex work is not as neat as we pretend</li><li>Murky power: Secrets, brothels and the influence women hold inside patriarchal systems</li><li>Whips, wit and reversal: Nancy Birch and the seductive idea of women turning power back on men</li></ul><p>&nbsp;</p><p>🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts
</p><p>🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube: ​​https://youtu.be/ivPBaWFO4sE</p><p>🔁 Share with someone interested in culture, feminism and social power</p><p><strong>Please rate, review and subscribe for weekly episodes.</strong></p><p>Connect with us on:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://uk.linkedin.com/company/rigourandflow" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href="www.aiaistudios.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">AiAi Studios</a></li><li><a href="www.rootsandrigour.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Roots &amp; Rigour</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><em>This is an </em><a href="https://open.acast.com/networks/67d57addaaba807fb7eb365a/shows/67d57d23b3ef7ea352b50da3/www.aiaistudios.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><em>AiAi Studios</em></a><em> Production</em></p><p><em>©AiAi Studios 2025</em></p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>