The Intimacy Inquiry
The Intimacy Inquiry

The Intimacy Inquiry

Andrew Phipps

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Welcome to The Intimacy Inquiry. Join us for open, curious, and non-judgmental conversations exploring the vast landscape of intimacy and sexuality. We delve into everything, including but not limited to, the value of good sex education to the importance of exploring and understanding our own bodies, overcoming trauma, and how to forge deeper connections with your partner, .Our expert guests include sex therapists, adult content creators, sexologists, authors, somatic healers, porn addiction specialists, marriage and family therapists, intimacy therapists, trauma-informed counselors, and many more.Using explicit language with respect, we fearlessly tackle topics like love, desire, passion, relationships, sexuality and gender, BDSM, tantric sex, massage, touching, kissing, and masturbation – essentially, anything and everything related to intimacy.If you're ready to explore the complexities and nuances of human connection and desire in a respectful and insightful way, you've found your space. Subscribe to The Intimacy Inquiry and join the conversation.

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Empowering Your Intuitive Self: A Conversation with Spiritual Guide Gloria Battini
DEC 17, 2025
Empowering Your Intuitive Self: A Conversation with Spiritual Guide Gloria Battini
<p>Empowering Your Intuitive Self: A Conversation with Spiritual Guide Gloria Battini</p><p>In this episode, Gloria Battini, a renowned spiritual guide, psychic, medium, astrologer, and transformational teacher, discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their intuitive intelligence and heal from past traumas.</p><p>Sharing insights on tarot, oracle cards, and astrology, Gloria emphasizes that psychic abilities are innate and can be developed by anyone. She also shares her personal journey through severe OCD and emotional abuse, shedding light on the importance of self-discovery and authenticity.</p><p>The conversation touches on societal conditioning, the power of vulnerability, and practical guidance on using spiritual tools for self-awareness and growth.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Gloria Battini</p><p>01:50 Gloria's Personal Journey and Mission</p><p>02:07 Understanding Psychic Abilities</p><p>03:07 Experiences with Intuition and Energy</p><p>04:46 Society's Disconnection from Intuition</p><p>15:58 The Role of Astrology</p><p>24:37 Astrology and Personal Healing</p><p>32:54 Mediumship and Translating Energy</p><p>36:40 The Importance of Practice</p><p>37:02 Exploring Intimacy Beyond the Physical</p><p>40:10 The Journey of Self-Love and Healing</p><p>44:18 Leaving a Toxic Relationship</p><p>50:00 Finding New Love and Trust</p><p>54:41 Reconnecting with Childhood Joys</p><p>58:53 Understanding Tarot and Oracle Cards</p><p>01:04:33 Protecting Your Energy</p><p>01:08:17 Hopes for the Future</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.gloriabattini.com/">https://www.gloriabattini.com/</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Lzf1AT9bSdbL8EB3LGQFg">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Lzf1AT9bSdbL8EB3LGQFg</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/gloriabattini/">https://www.instagram.com/gloriabattini/</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@gloriabattini">https://www.tiktok.com/@gloriabattini</a></p>
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69 MIN
Exploring Intimacy and Identity with Tonya Todd
DEC 10, 2025
Exploring Intimacy and Identity with Tonya Todd
<p><strong>Exploring Intimacy and Identity with Tonya Todd</strong></p><p>Tonya Todd, a Las Vegas-based author, actress, and activist, delves into her life and work in this engaging script. Known for her evocative stories about passionate women, her new book '52 Love' offers bite-sized lessons on intimacy.</p><p>Tonya champions marginalized voices and shares her journey from being painfully shy to becoming empowered through acting. She discusses her writing process, the significance of representation in media, and her penchant for vampire literature.</p><p>Tonya also reveals her insights on cosplay and the importance of creative resistance. This script highlights her commitment to storytelling that reflects diverse experiences and relationships. </p><p>00:00 Introduction to Tonya Todd</p><p>01:10 Early Life and Struggles</p><p>02:18 Overcoming Shyness Through Acting</p><p>07:31 Defining Powerful Women in Writing</p><p>08:27 Challenges of Gender and Inclusion</p><p>15:26 Writing vs. Acting: A Creative Journey</p><p>18:06 The Writing Process and Future Projects</p><p>25:05 Exploring Comic Books and High Art</p><p>31:56 Embracing Character Confidence</p><p>32:31 Role Play and Cosplay in Relationships</p><p>35:13 The Birth of '52 Love'</p><p>36:19 Navigating Love During Turbulent Times</p><p>37:45 From Blog to Book and Podcast</p><p>40:08 Exploring Love Languages</p><p>42:38 The Importance of Communication</p><p>47:00 Vampire Fascination and Writing</p><p>56:14 Balancing Creativity and Downtime</p><p>59:33 Final Thoughts and Future Plans</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8904672/">https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8904672/</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.mstonyatodd.com/">https://www.mstonyatodd.com/</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/mstonyatodd/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/mstonyatodd/?hl=en</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/tonya.todd.9440">https://www.facebook.com/tonya.todd.9440</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@mstonyatodd">https://www.youtube.com/@mstonyatodd</a></p>
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61 MIN
The Journey of Resilience: Ms. Elite USA 2024 Koya Bakare on Healing and Self-Worth
DEC 5, 2025
The Journey of Resilience: Ms. Elite USA 2024 Koya Bakare on Healing and Self-Worth
<p><strong>The Journey of Resilience: Ms. Elite USA 2024 Koya Bakare on Healing and Self-Worth</strong></p><p>In this episode, Koya Bakare, Ms Elite United States 2024, shares her incredible journey from trauma to triumph. As a speaker and mindfulness coach, Koya discusses her formative years, her relationship with her mother, and the pivotal role of pageantry in her life. She opens up about overcoming bulimia, suicide attempts, and sexual assault, revealing how these experiences have shaped her mission to empower others. Koya also talks about her spirituality, the importance of self-love, and finding joy in life's simple pleasures. This deeply moving conversation highlights the power of authenticity, resilience, and staying true to one's purpose.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Koya Bakare</p><p>00:53 Reflecting on Teenage Years</p><p>03:02 Mother's Influence and Support</p><p>08:06 Journey into Pageantry</p><p>13:33 Therapy and Healing</p><p>26:09 Romantic Relationships and Trust</p><p>31:52 Self-Love and Personal Growth</p><p>32:58 Embracing Self-Love and Identity</p><p>33:21 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>34:30 Guidance for Women on Self-Confidence</p><p>35:19 Writing as a Tool for Healing</p><p>36:53 Practices for Self-Love and Well-Being</p><p>40:12 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Perception</p><p>48:48 Balancing Service and Self-Care</p><p>53:41 The Role of Spirituality in Life</p><p>57:10 Future Plans and Aspirations</p><p>01:00:26 Legacy and Life Reflections</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/koyamaisha/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/koyamaisha/?hl=en</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@koyabakare">https://www.tiktok.com/@koyabakare</a></p><p></p>
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63 MIN
Navigating Modern Love: Insights from Dating Coach Noah Heymann
NOV 25, 2025
Navigating Modern Love: Insights from Dating Coach Noah Heymann
<p><strong>Navigating Modern Love: Insights from Dating Coach Noah Heymann </strong></p><p>In this episode, Andrew interviews Noah Heymann, a dating and relationship coach who helps individuals find love through his website <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://datecoach.com">datecoach.com</a> and Instagram handle <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://datecoach.com">datecoach.com</a>.</p><p>Noah's expertise covers areas such as in-person approaches, online dating profiles, communication techniques, body confidence, and intimacy. He shares his journey from a closeted teenager to a full-time coach, emphasizing the influence of past experiences on current dating behaviors.</p><p>Noah also discusses the importance of candid communication in relationships, different dynamics in online dating for various genders, and the role of data in improving dating success. Additionally, he touches upon open relationships, BDSM, and navigating modern dating challenges. Noah underscores the value of authenticity and offers strategies for effective communication and dating in both new and long-term relationships.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Noah Heymann</p><p>01:25 Noah's Personal Journey</p><p>04:01 Challenges in Modern Dating</p><p>06:40 The Science of Online Dating</p><p>15:48 Differences in Dating Dynamics</p><p>27:50 Navigating Authenticity in Relationships</p><p>31:16 Overcoming Childhood Challenges</p><p>32:22 Impact of Past Relationships on Self-Sabotage</p><p>34:02 Navigating Vulnerability in Dating</p><p>34:14 Discussing Kinks and Fetishes</p><p>35:32 Tools for Better Communication in Relationships</p><p>37:14 The Importance of Open Discussions</p><p>39:49 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships</p><p>49:07 Modern Dating Dynamics and Apps</p><p>54:28 The Joy of Personalized Coaching</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.datecoach.com/">https://www.datecoach.com/</a></p>
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59 MIN
Unlocking Lasting Love with Relationship Coach Bernando Mendez
NOV 21, 2025
Unlocking Lasting Love with Relationship Coach Bernando Mendez
<p><strong>Unlocking Lasting Love with Relationship Coach Bernando Mendez</strong></p><p>In this episode, we sit down with Bernando Mendez, a renowned relationship and dating coach who guides women globally to lasting love by understanding the masculine mindset, building self-worth, and creating genuine romantic connections. </p><p>Bernando shares insights from his own transformative journey and coaching experiences, detailing how he helps women release limiting beliefs and attain dating clarity. We delve into his background, his personal struggles, and his professional shift from entrepreneurship to relationship coaching. </p><p>Bernando also discusses the importance of self-love, navigating modern relationship dynamics, and developing an effective, attuned dating plan. The conversation covers various topics, including attachment styles, emotional alignment, and practical tips for successful dating. Inspirational success stories of his clients illustrate the profound impact of his guidance. </p><p>Join us for an enriching discussion filled with actionable advice and heartwarming anecdotes.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Bernando Mendez</p><p>01:22 Early Life and Personal Struggles</p><p>03:45 Journey into Coaching</p><p>08:26 Understanding Attraction Blind Spots</p><p>12:52 The Importance of Self-Love</p><p>15:14 Modern Masculinity and Relationship Dynamics</p><p>23:05 Navigating Dating and Relationships</p><p>30:08 Understanding Emotional Attunement in Relationships</p><p>31:57 Creating the Best Scenarios for Meeting Good People</p><p>35:38 Handling Different Dating Challenges</p><p>41:31 Identifying the Right Partner</p><p>46:08 The Importance of Intimacy in Relationships</p><p>48:43 Success Stories and Personal Growth</p><p>53:10 Maintaining Mental Wellbeing as a Coach</p><p>58:10 Future Plans and Vision</p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/bern_mendez/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/bern_mendez/?hl=en</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/@BernMendez">https://www.youtube.com/@BernMendez</a></p><p><a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://bernmendez.com/">https://bernmendez.com/</a></p><p></p>
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60 MIN