M.O.M. Files - Moments of Motherhood
M.O.M. Files - Moments of Motherhood

M.O.M. Files - Moments of Motherhood

Aleea + Hav

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Feeling overstimulated, touched out, or burnt out as a mom? You’re not alone—and you’re in the right place. M.O.M. Files – Moments of Motherhood is a cozy, conversation-style show for moms craving connection, not perfection. A space where the hard stuff exists without shame. Think honest reflections, not rigid advice—from moms in the thick of it. If hustle culture, Pinterest parenting, or toxic positivity leave you unseen, this is for you. Join us Wednesdays for wisdom, validation, and the reminder you’re never alone in this. Welcome to your village.

Recent Episodes

Holiday Stress? Let’s Talk, Mama
DEC 10, 2025
Holiday Stress? Let’s Talk, Mama
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26 MIN
The Aesthetic Gap: Loving Your Home Without the Pinterest Pressure
DEC 3, 2025
The Aesthetic Gap: Loving Your Home Without the Pinterest Pressure

Feeling the pressure to keep up with social media aesthetics while trying to stay true to your own style? In this episode, Hav and Aleea dive into the real-life struggles moms face around trends, parenting aesthetics, and home decor.

They talk about the gap between what you want and what the internet says you should want, and how overwhelming it can feel to manage a home that’s both functional and ‘cute’ while raising kids.

Listen in for practical mindset shifts and simple, doable tips to help you create a space that feels right for your family—not the algorithm.

 

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CHAPTERS

00:00 How social media messes with our mom aesthetic
02:08 Feeling the pressure to keep up with trends
05:01 Real life vs. Instagram life
07:52 The truth about keeping a clean house with kids
10:43 Finding a balance between “cute home” and “real life”
18:21 What parenting actually looks like behind the scenes
20:34 Mindset shifts that make your home feel better fast
25:29 DIY, kids, and making your home feel like yours
29:12 Small home tweaks that make a big difference
33:20 Learning to love the imperfect home life

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37 MIN
When Motherhood Feels Like a Competition
NOV 19, 2025
When Motherhood Feels Like a Competition

Ever catch yourself stuck in the comparison trap of motherhood? In this episode, Hav and Aleea dive into how social media can quietly fuel comparison—whether it’s parenting styles, milestones, or the picture-perfect lives we see online.

They open up about the emotional toll of constantly measuring yourself against other moms and the freedom that comes from embracing your own unique journey. You’ll hear real talk on the difference between healthy and unhealthy comparisons, how to create a more supportive mom community, and why being gentle with yourself matters more than keeping up.

Because here’s the truth: just because something felt easy for you doesn’t mean another mom’s struggle isn’t real—and none of us get an award for having it “all together.”

Listen in for an honest and supportive conversation about doing our best, our way.


P.S. Got any mom groups, communities, or podcasts you swear by? Share them in the comments!


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CHAPTERS

00:00 When motherhood feels like a competition
11:17 How social media messes with mom life
17:10 Getting out of the comparison trap
24:20 You’re not the only one feeling this way
25:39 Doing motherhood your own way

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28 MIN
The Hidden Rage of Holiday Prep
NOV 12, 2025
The Hidden Rage of Holiday Prep

Do the holidays already feel like a to-do list? In this week’s episode, Hav and Aleea unpack the emotional and mental load of being the one who “makes the magic.” Because sometimes the pressure to create the perfect holiday turns into resentment, guilt, and burnout.

They talk about the Pinterest-perfect expectations, the subtle shame around gifts, and how social media can make even meaningful traditions feel like they’re not “enough.” They are breaking down how to redefine holiday traditions, reduce pressure, and focus on what actually matters — connection, not consumption.

If you’re craving a more grounded, joyful season (and permission to ask for help), this episode is for you. ✨


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CHAPTERS

00:36 Creating Christmas magic without spending big

03:23 Halloween costume hacks & swapping ideas

09:01 Let’s talk crafts: the cute ideas vs. the reality

14:44 Gift budgets, boundaries & resetting expectations

20:16 Holiday traditions that matter more than presents

28:33 Holiday pressure is REAL — here’s how we cope

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29 MIN