<p>Forgiveness is a tactical advantage. Once you&#39;re out of an abusive relationship, whether that&#39;s with a family member, a toxic work environment, etc, once you&#39;ve handled your addiction to chaos so you don&#39;t go back, and you&#39;ve found the right therapy for you in case you carry PTSD, next step is to think about Forgiveness. </p><p>The 6 Items we think about when it comes to forgiveness, in this episode, are:</p><ol><li>What forgiveness is and what it is not</li><li>Forgive and Forget, really??? </li><li>Forgiveness as a way of letting the hurt bear fruit</li><li>Forgiveness as a weapon of spiritual warfare</li><li>Forgiveness as a <strong>logical</strong> thing to do for autistic women</li><li>Secret and Juicy last item you will LOVE :) </li></ol><p>When we let go of the need for revenge, when we decide to let go of the emotional load, that&#39;s when we find Emotional Detachment, freedom and real impact. </p><p>To go farther:</p><p><a href="https://www.vatican.va/content/john-paul-ii/en/apost_letters/1984/documents/hf_jp-ii_apl_11021984_salvifici-doloris.html" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">The Christian Meaning of Suffering</a>, on the Vatican&#39;s website.</p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/7JFvvt2UIjH7H0Mj51QU36" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Another take on Forgiveness and Revenge</a> by <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0ofXAdFIQQRsCYj9754UFx" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Stuff you Should Know</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Season 2, <strong>Emotional Detachment as a Tactical Advantage forFamily Court</strong> (starting with the addiction to chaos mini-series) is a Liberation Series that suggests things to look into as you rebuild yourself, so that you can become the version of yourself that is so detached emotionally, that you can prepare for family court correctly. </p><p><strong>Emotional detachment </strong>is where I want to help you get to, so that any legal advice you may receive about family court, actually lands.</p><p><strong>DETACH, BABY, DETACH!</strong></p><p>Here is the order I recommend for your healing journey towards emotional freedom, as you work to become a new version of yourself - the version that can actually win in court:</p><ul><li>First step is to think about not going back. There&#39;s a true <strong>addiction to chaos</strong>:<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3hv8wgsEnbIufcPMPfgbx1?si=39e3ff32a33d4781" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> Episode 15A</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Q4y3NVnnz1WvsgYqdqau6?si=3efcaabacccd40c7" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Episode 15B</a>, Episode 16A, Episode 16B. </li></ul><ul><li>You then want to work with a therapist and <strong>see if you carry PTSD</strong>, and what types of therapy will help you heal the PTSD. For me, it was EMDR: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/0MBjbaMIlxg8o6zAD6Ja7H?si=ec2d8f8e33164b8e" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">Episode 17</a>, Episode 18. </li></ul><ul><li>Here we talk about <strong>Forgiveness as a tactical advantage</strong> and as a massive step in your personal development. Your suffering must bear fruit, learning to forgive is one. </li></ul><ul><li>The next things to think about in your liberation and in reclaiming your dignity, will be <strong>codependency,</strong></li><li><strong>Gratitude, </strong></li><li><strong>Fellowship &amp; Mentorship</strong> with the STAR Network,</li><li><strong>Surrender &amp; Grief</strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p>Follow the show so you can hear the entire season about <strong>Emotional Detachment as a Tactical Advantage for Family Court</strong></p><p><em>This content is for general information and inspiration only. It is based on lived experience, on conversations had with others, and on deep research performed on publicly available information. It is not medical, mental‑health, legal, or professional advice, and it isn’t a substitute for advice tailored to your situation. Please seek support from a qualified professional who understands your needs. If you or someone you’re caring for is at risk of harm, please contact local emergency services or a trusted crisis service in your area.</em></p><p>Keywords: autistic women, forgiving your abuser, forgiveness after abuse, how to forgive, how do I forgive, autistic brain, spiritual warfare, what is forgiveness, narcissistic abuse, forgiving the narcissist, freedom, forgiving as an autistic woman, emotional detachment, preparing for court, leaving an abusive relationship, ASD brain, letting go, how to let go, why should I forgive, reasons to forgive, resentment, christian meaning of suffering, domestic abuse, autism, ASD</p>