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<p>Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! <a href="https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars">Register Here.</a></p>
<p>A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'.</p>
<p>I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society.</p>
<p>And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors.</p>
<p>You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below.</p>
<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Info and Articles</h4>
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<li><a href="https://peggingparadise.com/2024/11/the-many-ways-to-bend-over-how-words-matter/">The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter</a> - Article</li>
<li><a href="https://peggingparadise.com/2015/07/bend-over-and-take-it/">Bend Over and Take it</a> - Article</li>
<li><a href="https://www.justthefacts.co.nz/about-virginity-hymen-myths">Virginity and the Hymen Myth</a> - Article by NZ Sexual Health Society</li>
<li>Here I am on BlueSky: <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social">https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.theartofpegging.com/videocontent">Here are my TikTok videos</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.theartofpegging.com/free-erotica-by-ruby-ryder">Here is my Free Erotica</a></li>
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<p>The post <a href="https://peggingparadise.com/2025/01/short-take-on-masculine-surrender-and-virginity/">Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity</a> appeared first on <a href="https://peggingparadise.com">Ruby Ryder - Pegging Paradise</a>.</p>
