<p>Christy Albright + Clarissa Sorensen Unruh share about teaching, learning, and the lessons of grief on episode 596 of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast.<br />
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<h2>Quotes from the episode</h2>
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<p>Take two deep breaths.<br />
-Clarissa Sorensen Unruh</p>
<p>None of the books that I researched on grief actually defined grief. It’s like they just assumed you knew what it was because it’s such a universal experience, but it’s not universally experienced by everybody in the same way.<br />
-Christy Albright</p>
<p>Anticipatory grief is when you know something is coming and you’re already grieving that situation.<br />
-Christy Albright</p>
<p>People assume that grief gets smaller, and actually we grow around it.<br />
-Clarissa Sorensen Unruh</p>
<p>The big griefs in my life stay forever.<br />
-Christy Albright</p>
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<h2>Resources</h2>
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<li><a href="https://teachinginhighered.com/2025/10/11/3b-communities/">Bonni fact checks her anecdote about birds</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio">Fractals: Is Hasan Smarter than a 13-year-old Math Genius</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio">Peter Felten: Can We Teach Curiosity?</a></li>
<li><a href="https://christyalbright.com/">Resources for Grieving (Christy’s website)</a></li>
<li><a href="https://capsuletracker.com/">Capsule</a></li>
<li class="li1"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763623449"><span class="s2">Ish, by Peter H. Reynolds</span></a></span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763619619"><span class="s2">The Dot, by Peter H. Reynolds</span></a></span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9781401971366"><span class="s2">The Let Them Theory, by Mel Robbins</span></a></span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"><span class="s2">An Educator’s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa</span></a></span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.theringer.com/podcasts/good-hang-with-amy-poehler"><span class="s2">Good Hang with Amy Poehler</span></a></span></li>
<li class="li3"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"><span class="s2">An Educator’s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa</span></a></span></li>
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