<description>&lt;p&gt;Christy Albright + Clarissa Sorensen Unruh share about teaching, learning, and the lessons of grief on episode 596 of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div id="" class="one-half first divwrap clearfix" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Quotes from the episode&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-20605" src="https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:auto/h:auto/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png" alt="The big griefs in my life stay forever." width="930" height="620" srcset="https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:930/h:620/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 930w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:300/h:200/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 300w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:768/h:512/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 768w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:600/h:400/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 600w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:360/h:240/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 360w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:930/h:620/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/dpr:2/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 2x" sizes="(max-width: 930px) 100vw, 930px" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Take two deep breaths.&lt;br /&gt;
-Clarissa Sorensen Unruh&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;None of the books that I researched on grief actually defined grief. It&amp;#8217;s like they just assumed you knew what it was because it&amp;#8217;s such a universal experience, but it&amp;#8217;s not universally experienced by everybody in the same way.&lt;br /&gt;
-Christy Albright&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anticipatory grief is when you know something is coming and you&amp;#8217;re already grieving that situation.&lt;br /&gt;
-Christy Albright&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;People assume that grief gets smaller, and actually we grow around it.&lt;br /&gt;
-Clarissa Sorensen Unruh&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The big griefs in my life stay forever.&lt;br /&gt;
-Christy Albright&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="" class="one-half divwrap clearfix" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;Resources&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://teachinginhighered.com/2025/10/11/3b-communities/"&gt;Bonni fact checks her anecdote about birds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio"&gt;Fractals: Is Hasan Smarter than a 13-year-old Math Genius&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio"&gt;Peter Felten: Can We Teach Curiosity?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://christyalbright.com/"&gt;Resources for Grieving (Christy’s website)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="https://capsuletracker.com/"&gt;Capsule&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li1"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763623449"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;Ish, by Peter H. Reynolds&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li2"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763619619"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;The Dot, by Peter H. Reynolds&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li2"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9781401971366"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;The Let Them Theory, by Mel Robbins&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li2"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;An Educator&amp;#8217;s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li2"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.theringer.com/podcasts/good-hang-with-amy-poehler"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;Good Hang with Amy Poehler&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li class="li3"&gt;&lt;span class="s1"&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"&gt;&lt;span class="s2"&gt;An Educator&amp;#8217;s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
</description>

Teaching in Higher Ed

Bonni Stachowiak

Teaching, Learning, and the Lessons of Grief

NOV 13, 202542 MIN
Teaching in Higher Ed

Teaching, Learning, and the Lessons of Grief

NOV 13, 202542 MIN

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<p>Christy Albright + Clarissa Sorensen Unruh share about teaching, learning, and the lessons of grief on episode 596 of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast.<br /> <div id="" class="one-half first divwrap clearfix" /></p> <h2>Quotes from the episode</h2> <p><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-20605" src="https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:auto/h:auto/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png" alt="The big griefs in my life stay forever." width="930" height="620" srcset="https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:930/h:620/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 930w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:300/h:200/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 300w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:768/h:512/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 768w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:600/h:400/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 600w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:360/h:240/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 360w, https://images.coachingforleaders.com/cb:ztCJ~31fd5/w:930/h:620/q:mauto/f:best/ig:avif/dpr:2/https://teachinginhighered.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/TIHE596-5-1.png 2x" sizes="(max-width: 930px) 100vw, 930px" /></p> <p>Take two deep breaths.<br /> -Clarissa Sorensen Unruh</p> <p>None of the books that I researched on grief actually defined grief. It&#8217;s like they just assumed you knew what it was because it&#8217;s such a universal experience, but it&#8217;s not universally experienced by everybody in the same way.<br /> -Christy Albright</p> <p>Anticipatory grief is when you know something is coming and you&#8217;re already grieving that situation.<br /> -Christy Albright</p> <p>People assume that grief gets smaller, and actually we grow around it.<br /> -Clarissa Sorensen Unruh</p> <p>The big griefs in my life stay forever.<br /> -Christy Albright</p> <p></div><div id="" class="one-half divwrap clearfix" /></p> <h2>Resources</h2> <ul> <li><a href="https://teachinginhighered.com/2025/10/11/3b-communities/">Bonni fact checks her anecdote about birds</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio">Fractals: Is Hasan Smarter than a 13-year-old Math Genius</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Vxwmcn0Stio">Peter Felten: Can We Teach Curiosity?</a></li> <li><a href="https://christyalbright.com/">Resources for Grieving (Christy’s website)</a></li> <li><a href="https://capsuletracker.com/">Capsule</a></li> <li class="li1"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763623449"><span class="s2">Ish, by Peter H. Reynolds</span></a></span></li> <li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9780763619619"><span class="s2">The Dot, by Peter H. Reynolds</span></a></span></li> <li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/79174/9781401971366"><span class="s2">The Let Them Theory, by Mel Robbins</span></a></span></li> <li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"><span class="s2">An Educator&#8217;s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa</span></a></span></li> <li class="li2"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.theringer.com/podcasts/good-hang-with-amy-poehler"><span class="s2">Good Hang with Amy Poehler</span></a></span></li> <li class="li3"><span class="s1"><a href="https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/53916/educators-guide-adhd"><span class="s2">An Educator&#8217;s Guide to ADHD, by Karen Costa</span></a></span></li> </ul> <p></div></p>